Can I be blamed for someone else's suiced? Please read the hole story.?

[brydenhartley]

I am a 16 year old male. My best friend that's an 18 year old male named will started dating a 14 year old I told him it was a bad idea, his girlfriend (14) said she was pregnant an she tha ight she had consent I told her no and that she's dumb. I told a good friend of mine what had happend and she told someone and it got out to the entire school and on Facebook I commented on a status and said that she told me she was pregnant and that she had threatend me. Will said he was gunna commit suiced because of what happend and it was my fault. I called his dad to let him know what was going on. Will said I saved his life, but will still has suicdal thoughts and I tell him I'm there for him and I love him everyday. He said it was not the first time he had tried to commute suiced because his sister went missing. I told his consoler and the principle to prevent will from doing anything and to get him help. But what if he does do something?

[marvelouslew]

You've done the best you can do by alerting his parents and his school administrators. They are the folks who are best trained to deal with your friend's mental situation.

The is behaving with the mindset of a child. She sees you as getting between her and your friend so she is using this as her way of getting even. If she is pregnant that is her responsibility. However, she will try to drag you into the mess as a way to have someone to blame for her own (and your friend's) mistakes.

While your loyalty to your friend is admirable, there is not much more you can do at this stage except offer your support. But the issue is now in the hands of their (your friend and his girlfriend) parents - you have done the most you could do to defuse the situation. However, try keeping out of any further facebook exchanges that can only result in electronic bad-mouthing.