I'm in love I don't know what to do?

[850]

Okay, so I have a huge crush on this girl since the beginning of grade 9 (currently in 10 grade). We are in the same ethnic group (Filipino) and in the same grade. She is 5'3 ft and I'm 5,11ft I sat beside her in grade 8 art class because my teacher moved me right beside her. At that time I only cared little for her but I still talked, laughed and kinda flirted with her. I think she has a crush on me because she was talking about a picture I posted on Facebook with one of my best friends.Also she always looks at me every time she sees me and sometimes touches her hair. Sadly, I don't go to the same school as her because of an engineering course I wanted to do. But I'm coming back in grade 11. She still looks at me when she sees me on the train or when I visit her school. In grade 8, when she was walking to art class, she was walking with a guy. They weren't dating but when he left her they hugged. I got goosebumps and I got jealous. Also In late grade 9 and early grade 10, a guy started liking her and I got very jealous. I only fin out about this a few moths after because I became less socially active in late gr8 ( cuz of last 2 months of school absence) and because of the school switching. I also don't make eye contact with her when she sees me because I'm nervous. Any ideas what to do here? Your answer would helpful!

[Don]

In my experience....go talk wid her 1st nd gt 2 knw abt her more....start wid simple conversation nd thn after a week go fa personal qn. Whn ever she needs u....help her..!!

[Been There]

"In love" is not love.
"In love" is being drawn to a fantasy, and lusting after someone, being obsessed with them.
Goosebumps and jealousy belong to the fantasy of infatuation and have nothing to do with real love.

Real love develops slowly, over a few years, as the two of you develop a bond of being partners and or working together.
A crush is not love.

You are only driving yourself crazy with fantasy and lust.
The fact is that infatuation is no prediction that the two of you would even get along, and most infatuations end in heartbreak within 2 years at the longest. In fact, psychologists warn us that the stronger the chemistry-crush is, the bigger the problems will be in the relationship.

If you cannot talk some sense to yourself, and bring yourself back to reality, get some counselling.