Bondage scenario ideas for my wife?

[Dustin]

My wife would like to be tied up and used by me. Anyone have experience in that type of role play or scenarios that we could act out together? She is into the whole "50 shades" thing, also she likes to watch public sex, gangbang and rape porn. I'd really like to get her mind going to tease her and get her excited for tonight. Thanks in advance for your thoughts!

[sewgoodmama]

Maybe you should start off by reading 50 Shade of Grey?

[Justine]

Hello, the first thing I would recommend is asking your wife to tell you exactly what she expects from the night, communication is incredibly important in any kind of bondage or pain based sexual experience.You could start the night off by visiting a local adult store and looking at and possibly purchasing a few items, like some rope, cuffs, a flogger maybe. Talk to your wife about what kinds of instruments she would like you to use on her. I would also suggest you check out the website Fetlife.com, it is sort of like Facebook wherein you create a profile and can add pictures and update your status and that. There a lot of groups on there that you can join, bondage and rape porn groups too. People on there will help to give you ideas and there are a lot of pictures on the members profiles that might give you some ideas too, videos also if you choose to pay for membership, though you don't have to pay unless you want access to them. Good luck in your new explorations, and remember communication is the most important thing.