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I want my ex boyfriend back please someone help?
02-28-2014, 11:48 PM
Post: #1
I want my ex boyfriend back please someone help?
I love him more than anything else in this world. He used to tell me that after God his mom and I were all he had. but suddenly everything went wrong. he broke up with me by just telling me that he doesn't want to be with a girl anymore. the night before my father had bought me a vaio laptop. my previous one was broken. I got really excited and wanted to let him know this. and told him. he broke up with me the day after. It sounds irrelevant but this is exactly why he broke up with me I guess!
2 monthes later I chatted with him on facebook not as me but as someone else ( As another girl and he didn't know it was me and never found out either). I wanted to make him miss me so that unreal girl on facebook sounded really bad. a selfish girl who only wants a boyfriend for money ( that's all)
he rejected her after he found out this and said:" you girls are all the same! all you care about is money. you are all jerks and I hate all of you. now go away "
I cried really hard. so that was the reason he broke up with me! he was wrong!
all of our meetings were in the street just walking together I never asked him to buy anything for me.and he sent me text messeges just as many as I sent him. how can he think about me like a selfish stupid girl? I got heart broken more than ever.
as the un real girl on face book I told him as a reply to what he said:" So what? you have to buy me everything I like ! take me to most expensive restaurants and...." by telling him this I wanted to let him know that he was wrong about me. but he said again what he had said before to that girl.
sorry I got this too long and I am sorry for my awful grammer as well cause English is not my mother tounge . there is something you should know about him: he lost his dad when he was 10 and since then he has worked really hard. he left university because he didn't have enough money. that's why he may sound sensitive. but I didn't do anything wrong I swear.
he is 24 and I am 20.
It's been 3 monthes I haven't seen him or talked to him or even texted him. I am dying. I cry every night. he hates me for a wrong reason. we are still friends on face book though. I don't know why he doesn't unfriend me he just hates me.
the only way I can contact him now is by phone and facebook (the wrongest way) I can't see him because we met on the street.
please help me get him back.what can I do? I am so miserable. Sad

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02-28-2014, 11:53 PM
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be an unknown girl on facebook to him but same character of yours....be nice to him & let friendship begins...when you are both close then you reveal your identity.

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02-28-2014, 11:58 PM
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wow this is bad so hurtful and i feel for you girl but if he was meant to be yours trust me he will come back to you .... you might continue being an unknown friend on facebook and later on when you reveal your true identity things might get even worse .... i think maybe you should give him the space and let him think about it.
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03-01-2014, 12:15 AM
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Start talking to him,try to have good relationship again.
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03-01-2014, 12:16 AM
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Right i'm not exactly sure why you thought pretending to be soeone else would push him back into your arms or why you even assume his reponse means he thought you were money mad and the fact your dad replaced your vaio is the reason he left you.

Men are not that fickle, He said he didn't want to be with a girl have you ever thought that maybe he thought you were too young or immature. Your admission of pretending to be another girl on facebook seems to insinuate that you are slightly immature. A grown up would have asked him out right what had caused him to leave you, a grown up would not have created a fictional character to force him back to come back to you (Which didn't work either did it)

You need to accept that it didn't work out and it wasn't because of money. If he wanted you he would be with you. Sorry if you feel this is a harsh reply, but i have to say things how i see them. Would much rather be honest than blow smoke up your backside and make out he's a bad person for leaving you.

Time to move on.

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