After 3 years left for another guy after two months?

[Jsmoot33]

Me and my girlfriend were serious for 3 years. a couple of months ago I felt like she kept picking fights with me and was acting strange. She had gained a new group of friends which I was cool with because one of here insecurities was that she never felt like she had friends. A couple were guys but I'm not the jealous type I promised her it was ok. Eventually she broke up with me... Through text message. The next day she was in New York with one of these guys. A month ago I got a long text message begging for me back. I said I don't believe that door is closed forever but right now I think we both need time and the break up happened for a reason. She hasn't always been emotionally stable and I think she needs to find ways to make herself happy being in a healthy relationship. We scheduled a lunch last week to talk. She cancelled saying she was too heartbroken to see me. Today I found out that she put on facebook she is in a relationship with that guy. I haven't said anything to her and I am trying to handle this with class and dignity. But I'm just so hurt and angry. When will I stop feeling so angry and sad?

[up2u]

You are way better than her. Let her go stop the pain and forget her. There is another girl out there that wont hurt you.

[Finwie]

It will take time, heartbreak does. I would suggest that you cut contact with her, so you won't be constantly reminded of her.

[Blue Planet]

your wife loves u, she just has a problem, wen u saw that n the begining u should have sent her, then both of u, 2 therapy 2 find the root of her problems. Shes reaching out 2 u becouse your the 1 she loves. Now you'll ither talk 2 her about this therapy rule or cut your loses

[Moretime]

Hi Jsmoot33 you sure have handled this with class and was right to not just take her back as from her posting she would have quite simply been using you. Let that hurt be the true reminded of what a selfish b**** this girl is as you appear to be on the money as to her type of character and temperment. Jsmoot33 you did well to handle being dumped view text and survived till this b**** got back in touch and may have made a huge mistake had you just taken her back. Jsmoot33 continue to be strong as I know you can be and the pain will subside only once you cut this b**** out of your life for good.