Boyfriend checks out ex wifes facebook page?

[Yes.]

i went to the history of internet websites his visited and he visits he's ex wifes facebook page.

they have two younger kids (4&5) together. they see each other about twice a week. they were together for 10 years, married for 3 and she left him. he and i have been dating for a year and a half and ive never trusted her.
last year i caught her using the word "babe" in one of her txt msgs to him.

i was going to ask him why he visits her page, when he can't see any info but her profile pic but i went back to history and he deleted the history of seeing her page!!!! thats when i knew he was hiding something! or doesn't want me knowing...

how do i bring it up with him???

thanks.
... just imagine you doing the same thing... why would you look up your ex's regularly?
he cant see anything but her profile picture. everything else is blocked by her.

[Meg]

He deleted the history because he knew you'd over react about this.

[Dav Kat]

He could be accessing her page to see pictures of his kids.

OR

Maybe he isn't over her

[mazza]

He isnt over her too much history....move on

[j n]

I can imagine how you feel but it could be that hes snooping to see whether she posts a new pic of her possibly new boyfriend. Being married to someone for a good while and also havinh kids with them the history and connection will always be there. Its sad but true as long as hes not sleepin wit her or sendin her flirty texts i would not worry about it.

[BabeHart]

So ask him...it doesn't have anything to do with you not trusting her, it has to do with you not trusting HIM...he is an adult with a mind of his own, and nothing she says or does will harm your relationship unless 1. you choose to let it or 2. he chooses to let it...

Who cares that she calls him "babe"??? They were together for a decade...you didn't 'catch' her doing anything...you simply saw that she'd called him that and there is no law against it...if it bothered him, he'd have said something to her...

You've been snooping so you need to go ahead and fess up that you're feeling insecure and mistrusting and want to know what's up...just remember that insecurity and jealousy can be relationship killers...his behavior may be innocent or not, but now that you know about it, it'll drive you nuts until you find out for sure...

[Erika]

They like each other, waiting the moment to dump you to go back to her

[Another Crone]

What she's doing is his business because they share two small children.

That's all you need to know. "Babe" is a very casual endearment that signifies nothing. Waitresses get called it all day long.

If he's "hiding" anything it's likely his resentment at your jealously and suspicion and he doesn't want to endure anymore lectures from you regarding it.

Here's the thing... you are not happy with his life. But it IS his life and it will be his life until the day he dies. He will always have these kids, his ex will always be their mother. It is what it is. If you can not adjust to that then you need to change YOUR life so that you can be happy. That is not likely to happen based on how you might try to manipulate other people's lives. If you aren't happy, that is your business to address for yourself. No one else can ever make you happy. It's a skill we all have to learn for ourselves.

[captainslone]

I'm not sure why he would if he can't actually see any information. Maybe he's waiting to see if she goes to timeline and it will automatically go public. He may want to see if she's saying anything about the kids or is posting pictures of a drunken party, something he may have to deal with because of the kids. I've checked my ex's profile to see if she's died horribly because I can't stand her. Sometimes we want to see if bad things happen to people we don't like. I can't imagine they're seeing each other or anything because then her profile would be available to him and they could make the excuse it was for the kids. If she calls him "Babe", exes sometimes still want to be friends because they don't want to be blamed. Don't start getting paranoid yet.

[Rick]

probably checking on his kids, looking for posts/ pictures of his kids. Also, he has a responsibility to some extent to be aware of the environment that his kids are around at all times.