Should I have taken her back?

[Margaret]

I know it's lengthy but please hear me out! Well, i have had this best friend for the past year and a half. At first she was an awesome friend we would hang out every weekend. Then last spring her other best friend (who was always second to me), was always trying to tell her not to be my friend. Like she wanted me out so she could be my friends only best friend. I started dating my best friends brother and anytime drama would happen my best friend would go tell this other friend, which I am uncomfortable with because she doesn't know me on a personal level, and I have asked my best friend to keep this other friend out of our business but she never does (after saying she will). Well in October I noticed my best friend posting all this stuff on Instagram saying the other girl is her "#1 best friend and favorite person ever" and then deleted all our pictures as if we were never friends. So i got mad and called her out on having been a bad friend lately and after that we didn't talk for 3 weeks. During that 3 weeks, she so quickly moved on to making this other friend her best friend. She deleted our photo album titled "best friend" and made one of her and that friend titled "best friend". And she changed my name in her phone from "best friend" to my name and made the other friends contact say "best friend". Then, one day, SHE texted ME saying she wasn't the same without me in her life and wanted to be friends again. I asked her why she deleted our pictures and she said it was a misunderstanding and that she was just trying to "clear up her Instagram" and "didnt mean to make it look like she was only deleting our stuff". So we have hung out since then but it has felt awkward for me because I feel like I can't trust her and I feel like I'm only keeping her my friend because my other best friends are moving away for college so if I don't make new friends (which I doubt I will as a senior) then she's like all I have until I move to another state to room with another friend in a year and a half. I don't know if I would be happier without this "best friend" even if it meant being alone. 3 weeks ago she asked me to room with her then last week puts on twitter "so ready to move with my best friend!" And tags the other friend! Then when I asked her about it she played dumb and shifted the blame on me which she does anytime I call her out. Thats why I feel like I can't talk to her about how she's acting. So what do I do?

[Steve]

Dudette your name is Margaret I am not telling lesbians how to take girls back sorry she is mine now. Lol at dominance rolls. Ok I will help you out brodette.

"Then last spring her other best friend (who was always second to me), was always trying to tell her not to be my friend." That is because she is jealous of you and she does not know how to share she didn't watch care bears.

"I started dating my best friends brother and anytime drama would happen my best friend would go tell this other friend, which I am uncomfortable with because she doesn't know me on a personal level, and I have asked my best friend to keep this other friend out of our business but she never does (after saying she will)." Ya that sure shows her you don't care for her anymore and your best friend is a jerk I am surprised y'all didn't have a cat fight.


"Well in October I noticed my best friend posting all this stuff on Instagram saying the other girl is her "#1 best friend and favorite person ever" She makes fun of you brodette I don't Instagram.

"and then deleted all our pictures as if we were never friends." Because she is a jerk.

"So i got mad and called her out on having been a bad friend lately and after that we didn't talk for 3 weeks." Dudette you are feeding the troll.. She is plotting more ways to hurt your feelings.

"During that 3 weeks, she so quickly moved on to making this other friend her best friend."
Go talk to her parents brodette she might be wanting to hurt you.

"She deleted our photo album titled "best friend" and made one of her and that friend titled "best friend"." Because she is a turd.

"And she changed my name in her phone from "best friend" to my name and made the other friends contact say "best friend"." Lol how do you know all this? You can have more than one best friend by the way you are just number two on her list.

"Then, one day, SHE texted ME saying she wasn't the same without me in her life and wanted to be friends again." Ya shes a meanie head

"I asked her why she deleted our pictures and she said it was a misunderstanding and that she was just trying to "clear up her Instagram" and "didnt mean to make it look like she was only deleting our stuff"." She was caught and is a liar looking for forgiveness.

"So we have hung out since then but it has felt awkward for me because I feel like I can't trust her" Ya probably can't but you want to because of your heart.

"and I feel like I'm only keeping her my friend because my other best friends are moving"
You are her escape goat.

"away for college so if I don't make new friends (which I doubt I will as a senior) then she's like all I have until I move to another state" Moving to another state is hopeless unless you have family or met some people from lay overs.

" to room with another friend in a year and a half. I don't know if I would be happier without this "best friend" even if it meant being alone." You should be on your own just to see if you like it or not if you haven't before. You can always be my friend!

"3 weeks ago she asked me to room with her then last week puts on twitter "so ready to move with my best friend!" Ya she is excited but she forgets about the time she hurt your feelings.

"And tags the other friend!" She is using you brodette.

"Then when I asked her about it she played dumb and shifted the blame on me which she does anytime I call her out." That's new to me sounds like a troll.

"Thats why I feel like I can't talk to her about how she's acting. So what do I do?" Really is up to you on what you want to do. What I would do is not talk to her cut all communications and say to myself "I am better as a person than not a person"

[Tyler]

Make real friends.. Your competing to be a best friend. You girls are odd lol but if your a senior in high school just wait and try to see who your real friends are. Not a friend you just take pictures with.. One that is actually they're for you, someone who if you broke down 45 minutes away wouldn't hesitate to come get you. And you mam have a bad friend.