What should I do about my girlfriend accusing me of cheating and wanting to leave?

[mario]

Long story short the first 2 times my gf and I tried to have sex, I turned her down because of an injury I had down in the man region and what made the situation worse was I turned her down after some intense foreplay and to make it worse, I didn't tell her about the reason I turned her down until months after because I was ashamed of the injury. After this happened she began to get real distant with me and about a month later we eventually broke up. About 3 or 4 months later she came back saying she wanted to get back together which we did. We didn't address sex right away because of what happened before until about 2 months in to us getting back together where we tried again, but I ended up turning her down again, but this time I was just so drunk I was on the verge of passing out, but it was still another time I turned her down. We still stayed together since that happened, and a lot of things have gone great, but there would always be this awkward situation whenever sex was brought up. Eventually we had to make the transition to a long distance relationship which kind of put an even bigger strain on our relationship regarding sex. We would see each other very often, but sex was harder to have because I moved back in with my parents and she is staying with her parents currently. Over the months of our long distance she would make subtle sarcastic remarks about us having sex and me possibly cheating, but it never got out of hand, but over time it just kept getting worse. A few weeks ago when we would hang out she would try to steal my phone every time it rang or just because and every time I would go out she would openly question if I was lying or not. It basically got to it's lowest point last weekend where she stole my phone last weekend and disappeared with it for over an hour where she was going through my facebook inbox and everything else and when she returned she looked sick to her stomach and angry and she was quiet on me for a long while until she told me she wanted to break up because of how flirtatious I was being with so many females even though most of my conversations with the females in my inbox were real casual conversations like "hey how have you been, how is school etc." and most of the girls were good friends, but she didn't care and was persistent on letting me know she wants to split. We eventually had a long 3 hour conversation about how I wanted her to know how much I love her and I would never do anything to jeopardize our relationship. I'm not trying to brag about myself at all, but aside from sex, I have been the ideal boyfriend. I spend time with her, I buy her wherever she wants and take her wherever she wants to go, I respect her and keep a steady line of communication with her and make sure I tell her I love her every day. At the end of the conversation, she was in tears and apologized for what she did and reassured me that she loves me too. After that I was thinking everything was good until today when she texts me early in the morning going off on me for the alleged flirting I was doing online, this time on twitter and we basically repeated the same situation we had the other day regarding facebook except this time she won't give me the chance to have a long conversation with her. I have been textng her all morning telling her how much I love her and even went into detail about it, but she hasn't responded to any of my texts and she just made a facebook post this morning saying I can keep messing around and flirting like I don't have a gf because right now I don't have a gf any more, and the thing is, I know this goes back to me turning her down for sex and how she just wants sex from me, which I am ready for, which I've told her, but she doesn't seem to be in the listening mood. I'm just wondering what should I do now because I'm just lost and worried that I might lose someone who I care so much about.

[Symbolic User]

just leave her because relationships are built on blind trust

answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...931AAMLDI7

[biba]

sorry I'm tired so I didn't read the whole thing, but I went through it and got the important stuff...
Just be honest with her! Always, even if it's embarrassing. About her being jealous of other girls, I can relate to that. I'm a very paranoid person and my boyfriend's looks don't help (he always has girls throwing themselves at him if I'm not around), but he always tells me what happened. So just assure her you're not cheating, but are you sure that's the only reason she want's to break-up? There's probably more to it than you think (or even she)...

[Tina]

You should have been honest in the beginning. But I think too much time has past to go back. I would end it and move on. Personally when I break up with a guy I can't go back.