Should i hangout with him?

[Boomerang]

Hi. Its going to be long, but pls read through

I knew both guys online. im 19 this year.

Recently I went out on a date with a guy, 24 this yr. He is sociable yet unromantic. Being a reserved person, i felt the first date was okay because there was little awkwardness. However, his friendliness confuses me as to whether he likes me more than friends. As to my feelings, i dont really know. But he had already asked me out on a second date for my bday celeb (cum his bday celeb too since its close together and i insisted). Coincidentally, he is best friends with this girl who is in the same activity group as me. And recently, he asked me out on a study date to which i ran away because he invited his friends without informing me. (i freaked out hahaha) He is in the same year as me, just different colleges.

Then, there is another guy who ive been facebook messaging at the same time i was messaging and getting to know Guy A. He just asked me if i was free to hangout with him next week. He is a working adult and very busy most of the time.

Im not sure if i should meet Guy B. I feel like im cheating even though im just friends with Guy A. The fact that he has informed all his close friends, one being someone i know, is making me feel confused.

:/ what should i do? should i kindly decline the offer by Guy B and see how things turn out with Guy A. At the least, if things do work out, i wont have to hurt Guy B's feelings if he likes me... ????? Or should i go out and get to know Guy B and see which i likes more? Im actually against option 2 since it feels wrong but... its logical though. Pls help me. thanks in advance!

[jayne]

Well, there isn't really anything 'serious' going on with guy A at the moment, and it's hard to tell if he sees this as anything more than friendship right now, but of course it's possible that a friendship could turn into something more, but that 'possibility' doesn't 'tie you down' to guy A, not if there's been no mention of it being an 'exclusive' friendship/relationship, so it wouldn't be cheating if you decided to meet up with guyB, as you and guy A haven't made eachother any promises that would be broken, also, meeting up with guyB, might help you to get your own feelings in perspective about both guys. If you do decide to meet up with guy B, make sure that meeting is in a public place so you'll feel safe, at least until you get to know him in person a little better, when you do, your own instinct, or feeling, will help you sort out which one, if either, could be right for you, good luck, i hope you make the best choice for YOU.