I used to think I was pretty but?

[Nim]

So here's the thing, I'm not going to lie I've always thought I was a fairly attractive girl (and I'm not trying to brag at all I'm sorry I sound so conceited) but recently I've noticed a few things:
1. The only guys who ask me out are the deemed "losers" or "freaks" and they always end up saying something like "well no one else will like you so stop being so stubborn." (That was a direct quote too) after I turn them down.
2. On social media and the like, when I get rates I'm always rated "cute" or "alright". But never beautiful or hot or attractive. No one has ever told me I was any of those, on the Internet nor in person.
3. I'm never in with the popular girls or invited to any parties... I'm friends with the quiet kids even though I'm very outgoing and try to be nice to everyone.
I just feel upset and ugly and I've recently began to suffer from depression due to it. The boy I love is with my friend and they are getting engaged. I'm so sad and I just needed to get it out.
Thank you so much in advance,
-Nim

[Sir J]

It's not about looks. It's about what is inside that matters. Supermodel or dog, it does not matter in the end. You will be with someone who cares about the inside you not the outside you. Just relax.

[Sakura]

It all starts with how you see yourself. If you think you are pretty then stop right there and quit over thinking everything. Just because other people don't invite you or don't rate you a certain way doesn't mean your pretty. Don't judge people or their thoughts by their appearance or your own perception. And seriously who cares what they think. So what if your friends with the quiet kids? Appreciate everything you have rather than picking out wha you don't.

[Karina]

well this is not really a question, but I guess I can elaborate, I have always been called called pretty/beautiful/gorgeous, in person and online. Yet I have never had a bf or kissed a guy before, i'm going to be 19 in a few months, I have always been the quiet shy type...friendly yet not social, if that makes sense...and it sucks some days because I feel like absolutely no hope in ever finding the one, my best friend who I love to death is like a sister to me, gets all the attention, she's more social, she even has a bf who she is engaged with and still flirts with the cute guy, and thinks its okay to go out on a date with him knowing he likes her, even though she is engaged, the only guys that liked me were the nerdy/ugly ones while this Cute guys gave her the time of day...yet it didn't help my situation having no cell phone, nor facebook/twitter/instagram all through high school....anyway I wish I could give u a happy ending, but there isn't one yet, anyway the point I want to make is to not feel sorry for yourself, there is days when I get sad bc of my situation in the relationships department, HA! as if there is one lol..but look ahead of you..God has amazing plans for you, and you will find the one when you least expect it, at least that's what I like to think..hope this helps and makes you realize that you're not alone..anyway feel free to message me..