Ex boyfriend is harassing me?

[Charlotte]

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I went out with a boy for 9 months, and it broke off..

He is being really weird and horrible.. he is sending me messages abusing me and my family. He said that hes 'not done with me' and he is going to stupid lengths to upset me..i blocked him on facebook and as a result he hacked into my facebook and took pictures of my conversations with other people and put them all up online.. i then changed all my passwords and he then stole his bestfriends ipod and hacked his bestfriends account to send further abuse to me.. i blocked that profile too and he then sent me abuse messages through his friends iMessage..

This has been going on for about a week and im beginning to feel rather scared...we never had a healthy relationship.. he left me for his ex girlfriend and i then kissed his bestfriend to get back at him and i guess i cheated yeah but i paid for that already and he only ever hit me once when he was angry.. i always felt as if he was using me because i gave him sex and money, i gave him anything he wanted as soon as he asked. he never did anything for me at all... i would walk in the rain to his house which was the other side of town (30 min walk),, for him to ignore me and play xbox or not even be at home and be with his friends.. he lied to me on several occasions but i still stayed with him. he made me feel like crap all the time and in result i had developed minor depression and anxiety.

my dad wants me to ring the police but i am scared it will get worse. We are both 15 (makes it all sound pathetic i know) but i feel very targeted and i actually feel scared to leave the house as he said 'hes not done with me'

what do i do?

[553]

Yeah dude is a legit punk. Its clear in guy handbook that you never lay a hand on a woman unless attacked first/fear for your life. No matter what even if she cheats or steals you simply never hit a woman so right there that makes him wrong all ready. Added with all the other stuff he sounds like the typical abusive douche bag, is he on drugs or does he drink? Cocaine and steroids make people angry and possessive like that. Sadly this is nothing new as it is common knowledge lots of women especially when younger (around our age, highschool and also up to university) stay in relationships while being treated like dirt. I won't get all into that though.

You should listen to your dad and let the police know as this could be the beginning of a tragedy if he gets worse. If not, do you have any guy friends that can rough him up? If one of my friends was in your situation i'd want to rough the guy up but its not always the best idea. Best to let school and/or police know.

[Selena Marie Gomez]

Darling, first I want to congratulate you on being a very smart girl and telling your parents. Now, listen to them. Call the police, this guy is pathetic and useless. He might even have some mental disorder that y'all aren't aware of, he most likely has anger issues. Please call the police and tell them everything that happened in detail and have them put a stop to this, and break any contact you have with this a-hole. You deserve better and don't you forget it. I wish you the best and I really do hope they put that boy in his place. xx