My boyfriend wouldn't add me on Facebook?

[Kelly]

I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 years. We are going to have a baby in July. Since we started dating back when myspace was popular he wouldn't set me as his girlfriend or friend. When we got facebook, he talked about how stupid social media was but ended up getting one because all of his friends had one. When we first got together, he had gotten out of a volatile relationship with his ex. He told me he was over her and just wanted me. So years go and about two years ago some drama happened and my boyfriend made me delete my facebook. So I did but he kept his. About a year ago, I set up a new one because I missed being able to talk to friends and family who moved away. He was fine with it and I sent him a friend request. Every time I would see him log in, I would tell him to add me. He said he would but would sign out instead. He did this about 5 times. About two weeks ago, I saw him log in and I actually was able to point at my request and told him "Click accept" he said he would but signed out instead. I finally told him how I felt and he minimized the who situation and tried to make me feel stupid for getting upset over facebook. I then asked him why he was putting up such a fight. It just escalated into a fight and I just finally canceled the request and blocked him. Then I password protected my computer. At first he got mad and try to accuse me of trying to hide shit. Well you can imagine the shi* storm he walked in and he quickly retreated. So it's been two weeks and my computer has been locked. Well the other day I was on facebook and I got up for a second and when I got back his account was signed into. I was about to log out and I saw that he had just accepted a female co workers request. Why did I sit in the request box for 6 months and she immediately was accepted? He walked back in the room and I told him he shouldn't leave his facebook open. I signed him out in front of him and locked the computer. Two weeks passed and all he had to do was just say "unblock me so I can add you". I tried my best to ignore it and put it past me. The other day he admitted that his ex had sent a friend request about a year ago. He said he didn't want to keep it from me....... but he waited a year to tell me. I had a horrible dream and it was as if my subconscious came alive and bi*ch slapped me. IS HE AFRAID TO LET HER KNOW THAT WE ARE STILL DATING? IS HE TRYING TO STILL HIDE ME FROM HER AND BETTER YET HIDE THAT I'M PREGNANT FROM HER?

This morning I was pissed. I couldn't even hide it on my face. The second he looked at me he knew I was upset and I really tried to calm down. I took off and went for a walk. He started to call and text and ask what was wrong. I asked him to give me some time but then he just tried to turn it on me and tell me how unfair I was and how I ruined his day off. I finally told him why I am upset and he once again turned it around and minimized it.

I want to show him these responses. If I'm being stupid I will drop it. This is not just about Facebook, this is about the fact that I have to beg to get him to acknowledge me on something as minimal as facebook. I even brought up how active he use to be on myspace with his ex. He would be at work and commenting how much he loved her every other day. This is about the fact that I FEEL like nothing has changed in seven years and he is still trying to hide me. Facebook or not, this feeling is hard to ignore.

Should this problem be recognized or let go? I have not married this jerk and it's time like these, I know why.

[Paco]

aye he might hiding it from you

[Spencer]

Avoid Facebook
There are problems in your relationship

[Takyra]

It should definitely be recognized.
He's either cheating or hiding something bad from you on Facebook.
Give him a ultimatum .

[Maggi Birchmeier]

It sounds dumb and yes he could say "its just fb." But I think its a little weird you two aren't fb friends? He can see its bothering you, he should just add you. Not making him a pussy, just to clear your assumptions and eliminate the fight completely. Him not accepting you is dumb. I'm with ya girl! My bf and I are fb friends but I do NOT like his/my old friends/exs/lovers ect knowing our business. Very limited interaction between us and we don't list it on our fb but we both have eachother's passwords..

I admit I check it once in a while, I'm sure he does the same. But just knowing he will let me on there is good enough for me. Not the control factor but just knowing he's not hiding anything.

[Jami Cook]

He's hiding something. No doubt.

[Makala]

You need to ask him why he won't accept your request and ask what he is hiding. If he keeps his facebook open, look to see who he's been talking to. If he loves you he shouldn't treat you like that!