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Should I just leave my bf after he did this?
03-03-2014, 02:38 AM
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Should I just leave my bf after he did this?
My bf has been very unstable lately in his job- He has gone to part-time and is struggling to find a job. IT has gotten to the point where is so depressed and upset that he has pushed me away and acts like he doesnt care. Because he was acting distant, we began to fight and this added to his stress and he has completely pushed me away and says we cannot talk now and need time away.
We stopped talking but everyday he will randomly text me about something so it is hard to move on from him. And we begin to talk and end up in an argument with how he is acting. Lately I went crazy on him and deleted him off social media and he got his brother which I am close to, to delete me and told him we broke up because I sent him a txt message saying I dont want to ever talk to him again.
Its just hard because he will make it seem like he doesnt care if I move on and then wheel my emotions back in.

Does he want me to move on? because he acts like we are not together? Its been 3 days- or does he actually want me to be his gf. Ive been there for him through alot and has helped him get where he is now- I am a rlly good gf that will do anything for her man and he knows that. So how can he throw me away like garbage?

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03-03-2014, 02:39 AM
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It sounds like you've been put through a lot. You seem quite concerned about whether HE wants to actually break up or not. But how about YOU? Do you think staying in the relationship will make you happy? It's good that you have helped him to get where he is. It shows that you're a supportive partner, and perhaps what you need to do is find someone who will be more appreciative of that.

You can't do all the supporting. If he's not giving it in return, then what's the point of staying in the relationship?

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03-03-2014, 02:48 AM
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You should tell him these things straight up so that you can get a straight answer from him. That should help you decide whether or not you should leave.
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03-03-2014, 03:01 AM
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He is obviously stupid. You should move on and ignore his texts. If he really loved you and wanted you he wouldn't push you away like that. If he wants you he needs to act like it!
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