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My 'best friend' is ignoring me and I just feel so lonely?
03-04-2014, 03:18 AM
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My 'best friend' is ignoring me and I just feel so lonely?
My friend has suddenly stopped speaking to me, I've texted her multiple times to make sure she's okay but she doesn't reply. She is clearly seeing my messages but ignoring them because we speak on Facebook/Twitter and she is constantly posting and seems happy. We have met outside of Facebook etc but we have to text in order to keepin contact because we live at opposite ends of the country.I have absolutely no one else. I have this group of people I sit with at school and they just make fun of me saying things like 'Oh Annie you look so radiant today' and 'You are the light of my life' but its sarcastic and they all just giggle to each other. They all hang out with each other outside of school and I've tried to go too but they don't invite me. There is literally no one else for me to speak to. It makes me feel so bad and has really curbed my confidence. No one ever speaks to me, nobody cares. I don't know what to do. I don't know what I have done to make people dislike me, I try my hardest with everyone but they won't let me be their friend. I feel so lonely, I just want to be loved.

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03-04-2014, 03:30 AM
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Annie, you're so amazing.

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03-04-2014, 03:33 AM
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If you guys talk over the internet and no the phone than maybe her phone is off.
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03-04-2014, 03:48 AM
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Aw, that really sucks. Sometimes when people are lonely, they are really clingy to the friends they have and they seem to eager to be friends with other people. know what I mean? Like overly excited to hangout and what not. It can be a turn-off & kinda creepy. No offense. You seem nice, so I am guessing this is maybe why people don't talk to you much. As far as the girls making fun of you, stand up for yourself & stop sitting with them. Believe it or not, when girls gang up on a person and make fun of them, if you stand up to them one day and start ignoring them, they'll see that they don't have control and they aren't afraid. Then once you move to another table, they'll talk about you and all because they will honestly miss you or no longer have much to talk about or figure out that the only thing they had in common was that they liked to be immature and be rude to you. Just try socializing with different people and joining sports and clubs. No one should be lonely and in a school full of tons of people, I am sure someone would accept you. Your friend that is across the country may just want a break from you or be busy with other things. Who knows. Maybe she will come around. Just wait it out. But any friendship that ends, never really existed. Remember that. Good luck. I hope things get better for you.
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03-04-2014, 03:55 AM
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Don't worry just let her take her time to respond if she really is your friend she will respond later or maybe she is going through some trouble herself even though she seems happy. I'm like you I don't have friends in my school, they are just shadows like my picture says.
I wish you could find a good best friend. But remember that you can also be your own bestfriend .
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