Is it me because i went through the phone, the men I choose, the men i attract OR WHAT?

[Professional]

I am an attractive, mature, intelligent, generous person who is admired by myself and others. I'm not naive. I also would never disrespect my partner. I am very committed and dedicated when in a relationship and help my partner to fulfill their dreams. However, the last 2 serious relationships I have been in, I have at some point found the guys texting with females in inappropriate ways. Yes, I did find out because of skimming through text messages if i was in possession of their phone with their knowledge and skimming through messages if they leave their facebook page up. So do all guys do this and it is just my fault because i invaded their privacy....or is there another issue at hand? Otherwise my current relationship is great. I just hate being disrespected because i would never do that to my man. And i know plenty of women that have cheating men when things look good to them.

[The Homie]

No not all guys do that. I never disrespect a girl. I always talk to them as nice and polite as I can. You just need to find that sweet but not push over guy.