I dont know what to do and i feel very depressed please answer someone?!?

[Emily]

Okay so if you look back at my question (my last question you will know that what i have been going throw) okay so i felt this guy fancied me and today i found him on facebook then like 20 minutes later he accepted my friends request and i said hi to him and we ended up chatting for like almost 4 hours.

When we were talking i done a mistake and clicked on his profile and i thought he was free and single (he is from Egypt) and i clicked on his profile by mistake and i saw he was in a "complicated relationship" and i was crying for like 30 minutes but i didnt say anything to him. He apparently has a girlfriend back in Egypt and their relationship is "complicated and i started to cry and i couldn't stop and i continued talking to him for another 3 hours and he was flirting with me a little like saying like "WHAAAA i knew you were foreign from the second I met U!!!" and i really fancy him because the other day he touched my foot with his (look at all the things he has been doing to help you more - http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind...016AAzrLac ). Then he only added one person from my class and then i added him but we were joking about and it was really fun.

Then i read one of his post and i think it was a friend and it said "(his name) I "love" your post about "in a complicated relationship - is it (her name)? LOL I think (Someone else name) posted something like that recently also!"

"Then she commented (his name) - I see my reply to you via my smartphone did not show up - that seems to happen a lot. - I was curious if (her name) was still in (His country) - she may be forgetting all about you. I am sure you miss her a lot! I miss her also, by the way"

and he said " she is still there but we hope to get a house soon so that she can come"

And i know it sounds wrong but i can't help it lots of people say he fancies me but now he is in a "complicated relationship" it has made me depressed.

I dont know what do please help me can someone just give me advice please because after talking to him on facebook it has made me closer to him because he said on facebook it more easier to talk here than at school.

Please someone can just answer me.

Thanks for answering. Emily.

[seth ramsey]

This is coming from someone who's probably pretty close to your age, I think, and who has been medicated for depression and an anxiety disorder. I know exactly what it's like to be legitimately depressed, and to me it just sounds like you are very upset. I could be totally wrong and maybe you are clinically depressed, but I'm just hoping that it's not real depression. My advice is, as hard as it is to take, is to get your mind off of it. Do something. Watch tv, listen to happy music, watch videos of babies laughing, whatever. When thinking about a situation obviously isn't putting you in a good mood, do yourself a favor and stop it from happening by getting your mind off of it. Yeah, it can be really hard, and if you're depressed you usually don't feel like taking anybody's advice because you just tell yourself "what's the use?' and write it off and just lie there sinking deeper and deeper. I am serious, get your mind off of it. He will still be there when you're done making yourself feel better and getting your thoughts together, and you can discuss things with him then. So until then, nothing is forcing you to think about it at this exact moment, so if you feel that you need to devote more time to thinking about it later, then do it later and meanwhile do something nice for yourself by giving yourself a break emotionally. I sincerely hope that things turn up for you. And if your depression really does have a hold on you, it's worth talking about with a parent or doctor.

[Fairdo4all]

Of course it is easier to talk on facebook, it is fantasy land where people act out their dreams of what they would like to be and of what they would like to do. The person in the flesh is all too often nothing like the personna that comes over on your laptop screen.

He says "we hope to get a house soon so that she can come" Is this a teen age fantasy ?
people in school don't get houses' so that their overseas girlfriend can come.

The words "complicated relationship" should be ringing very loud warning bells ! If you are English or American you should realise that males from the middle east have a rather different viewpoint regarding women than what you are used to !