My friend wants to go out with a 17 year old guy she talked to on Facebook and she's 14?

[I am the master]

So today my best friend texted me about this guy. She told me about him and how she just met him and has been talking to him on Facebook for all of 6 weeks. She's in 8th grade and he's a junior. So she just met him today and told me he tried to kiss her. I told her that she needs to be realistic and that if he already has tried to kiss her and she just met him today, who knows what he's gonna want next. She's all mad at me because I'm being realistic. What do you think? There's nothing I can do, I'm just worried.
Um it's not me this is really actually my friend.
Queenstar?
I just honestly think she's acting dumb and immature. What does a 17 year old want from a 14 year old. Well we all know that.
I told her that even if she did "go out" with him the relationship is going no where. He'll be 18 next year and if they had sex that is illegal. He sounds like a loser.
He's not a pedophile because she's developed as a woman. That is so false and ridiculous.

[Luv You]

sounds like a pedo what would he have in common with a 14 yr old

[Jay]

Tell her you have her best interests at heart and if she doesn't listen to reason you will tell her mum.

[Angelo]

Oh no! That's your problem. I can't help you.

[Kapinga]

Just let her get raped... she asked for it..

[Alanna]

Young girls are so naive when it comes to guys older than them. Those type of relationships never work out, the guy is most likely probably talking to other girls at his high school. She's mad at you for being honest.

[objective]

hes not a pedophile because most girls at 14 are developed as women. but there is no way a high school junior will have a serious relationship with an 8th grader. he only wants sex. hes probably also a loser too.

[Chacha]

If I were you, I'd just let her learn the hard way. Then when this guy breaks her heart, just be there for her. Don't tell her "I told you so," or any of that. Hopefully, she will learn on her own not to be so foolish.

[Linda]

Obviously, this guy has carnal intentions in mind for her (ie. blatantly sexual) and if your friend doesn't snap out of it she'll fall victim to him (metaphorical) fangs. I see that from what you're saying is that you're using rationale to help her and yet she doesn't want to listen. (ie. your advice is falling on deaf ears here.) She is, as you say "acting dumb and immature" the best you can hope for is that you can convince her with your logic and facts. However, if she still doesn't want to listen to you. You can always pull examples from real life to present to her. For example: (your argument) the man tried to kiss you, what other intentions could have for you in the future? Please do not become like one of those girls of the internet that become known for the horrible decisions of giving out compromising pictures to her "boyfriend" who later on into the future, makes her pictures viral in order to spite her. Compromising many good job opportunities and her moral credit. Anyways, this "boyfriend" obviously does not have the purest intentions in store for her, ask her, why does she feel that she "wants" this man as her "boyfriend?" What exactly is the reason she is so drawn to him? If she can name any then she being confused by his countenance perchance? (ie. his appearance) then her argument holds no substance. However, if she does have key aspects of his personality that she likes, then ask her to give you solid examples of such. Otherwise, she'll just be deluding herself into thinking you're just being overtly judgemental or something.

[anonymous]

I think that is so gross. She needs a reality che k. Nothing good can cone out of that relationship. She needs to come back to Earth and leave fantacy world