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I need to know what to do!!! girls and guys opinion!!! 10 points!!?
03-05-2014, 07:52 AM
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I need to know what to do!!! girls and guys opinion!!! 10 points!!?
asically me and his boy are both coming up 15, we met like 2 years ago and we are always texting each other, we've met a lot, the day he came down to meet I had an argument with my family and my phone broke, so I told one of my friends to text him saying I can't make it... He thought I was blowing him off & basically in anyother words thought I wasn't intreasted, when my phone was working I texted him saying "hey wanna meet?" And he said erm I'm sorry I have a girlfriend, I did really like you but I didn't think that you were intersted in me (this was 5 months after) so I was like oh okay, he broke up with his girlfriend because he had feelings for me, I got with someone else because I sort of had feelings for this other person, then he text me asking to meet I said no I'm with someone, then basically he sent me a long paragraph saying that he liked me, then bad stuff happened between me and my ex, I took my self off of facebook, twitter and locked my phone away, now I have my phone back and everythings back on the road again we've started to talk, I saw him the other day at the shopping centre, I was with a group of boys and some girls and he was with some girls and a few boys and he came up to me, hugged me, showed me to his friends and asked me to meet him soon, I said yeh corse, and we have been talking a lot since, how do I make it work between us? What can I do to help it work? And also what should I not do? He said to me last night on the phone that he sort of likes me and what does this mean? X I asked this earlier and no one helped please answer, I'll do yours x

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03-05-2014, 08:08 AM
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first of all, give yourself a break! No need to worry, he certainly likes you, that's for sure, but might not wanna rush things though, you guys have been through a lot it seems, all you need right now is some time to let you guys find eachother again! you loved him, then he loved you, and right now you might just love eachother at the same time but pushing things might just ruin it!
just start hanging out more often, text him occasionally, get closer and eventually things might happen! Smile that's the key to love: courage and patience, believe in yourself and take your time getting closer and closer and closer, over time that's really the best way of creating a stable and absolutely awesome relationship! Wink

hope it all works out!

Tom

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03-05-2014, 08:10 AM
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Communication is the key, that's the best way for it to work. You just need to hang out with each other, get to know each other more. You should invite him somewhere, go for lunch and a movie and just talk. One thing will lead to another the more you're around each other Smile He's made it clear that he's interested and you should make it clear that you're interested too, that way there aren't any miscommunications. There isn't anything that you shouldn't do, relationships are all about trial and error. Just play it cool Smile x
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03-05-2014, 08:25 AM
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Sounds like the two of you have alot of unintended drama going on. He is with someone, you are with someone, parents. Relax, play it cool and take it as it comes. You cant force things. He already says he likes you and you like him. Next time you two schedule to meet up, be there at that time. Be early, be on time, DO NOT be late! After the back and forth between the two of you, the last thing you want to do is leave him hanging. Besides, if you really do like him, there is absolutely no reason for you not to be on time. Dont worry to much, he told you he likes you, then do your part and prove you like him too!
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03-05-2014, 08:41 AM
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Well it's obvious you both like each other. Are you still with the other person? If not then obviously you can do anything, just be careful that he doesnt play games with you. I had a similar experience, one im now still having to deal with 8 years later. We both liked each other but each time one of us was ready the other was already with another person. Yet 8 years and we're still trying...sometimes its worth it, sometimes it isnt. You honestly wont know until you properly spend time together. The guy I was having issue with I now can't stand lol
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