cheating husband uses me or loves me?!!?

[Wine]

1=sexually harassment of those women who rejected him or regular infatuation with other women

2=posing with skimpy dressed women,make them,one of those girls was sitting on his lap while he was partially unclothed and flashed his wedding ring to the camera

3=diner date with some blonde friend of his and he wasn't even sitting on his seat.instead he was standing behind her,kissing her head,wrapping his arms around her chest,stomach and neck and was laughing and joking.

4=publicly thrashing best female friend for how many men he knows she slept with,whom she is sleeping with while he is talking and that shes are a **** indirectly after she cheated on him after their sexually charged affair,and during that he mentioned me what he put me through during the overdose incident, in laws crying when they hear that

5=constant staring at other women who catch his fancy.

6=He always brags about what a family man he is on public and on twitter(same with the documentary-got labeled as a stand up family man)) (time needed to be with family,watching TV with me, and other things about me and daughter) kisses me in the crowds after hes done performing and that's why people think that we love each other so much and have such a good relationship.
He wrote happy birthday to me on twitter when we were together in the airplane and switching between airports together.
But just the day before your my birthday while he was talking on twitter,he didn't mention that its my birthday tomorrow..just told that we are going for our family vacation..its all in the public and the public needs to know that hes a devoted family guy.
Even vacations and holidays will be made public via twitter.

7=he stays out of home a lot due to his job,has a huge paycheck at work,famous,successful,good looking & wanted a child as quickly as possible before he got married.and had already thought of baby names including selecting a name for a girl child when we hadn't even married!

8= so this is acceptable????
Why was his intention of marrying and why so much pretending??

And if wife has no effect and hangs out with him happily,with her girlfriends then??

[Gaurav]

well all such things that you had mentioned makes picture of a very cheap guy,who only cares of himself only. he is just using you and nothing else,i think you need to move away or leave him. Just think of your future and your family also. He cannot be a good husband,even not a good father. Rest other things you may know.......!!!! These things are strictly not acceptable!!!!


All i wanna say that" FOR BETTER FUTURE YOU HAD TO THINK PRACTICAL AND ACT WISELY,AND TAKE YOUR DECISION.AS YOU ARE THE ONLY SUFFERER."




#GRV#

[Tomboy]

I'm sorry but first of all, I'm the jealous type and since I don't believe I have the right to change him, I wouldn't stay with him cause I couldn't stand his behavior, when in a relationship, one should act taken, which is shown in front of other people, not just when it's the two of you. Second of all, I understand if you love him and wanna be with him, but I'm positive you deserve better than that kinda guy, and that someone else will definitely make you happier. Someone who abused another before can always do it again.

[Monica]

what does any of this even mean.