Why is it bothering me so much?

[Samantha]

Long story short, my best friend and I are joining a soccer league on Sundays that my ex boyfriend told us about.
My ex and I are usually close and friends, but something happened, and we haven't talked in a week,


My best friend has the guy who is in charge of it's phone number, so he would obviously be the best person to ask

But my friend insists that she asks my ex boyfriend the questions (she has a boyfriend, so it's nothing like that)… But I told her that asking the guy in charge would make more sense, so my friend told me she'd ask the man in charge.

I creeped onto my friend's Facebook (she left her Facebook password saved), and I saw that she messaged my ex instead.. Why would she lie to me and then message my ex?

But I kind of feel like if your best friend isn't talking to her ex right now (and you aren't even friends with your friend's ex boyfriend), then why should you be talking to the ex-boyfriend… especially if the answers could easily be answered by the guy who runs the league.


or am I being too sensitive because my ex and I aren't talking right now? Or do I have a right to feel weird about my best friend talking to my ex more than I am? Especially since this is her 2nd time messaging him about it in 1 week...

[Halim B]

Hi Samantha,...!

I think there is no any weird in this case if best friend
talking to your ex. And if there is a feeling of jealous
then it is correct ! Because you still love your ex and
do not want her to be closed with him.