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Need to tell my "best friends" I dont want to be friends?
03-06-2014, 12:19 PM
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Need to tell my "best friends" I dont want to be friends?
My best friends have turned into exactly the kind of people I can't stand. They're interested in having sex every weekend and doing drugs and talking to multiple guys. They're extremely two faced and I've reached my limit.

I already talked to them about how I feel and it was a disaster.. They began to ignore me and talk about me even though they promised they would try and change. They've called me twice and harassed me when I've said I don't want or need to be friends with them.. And honestly I have a problem of being too nice and letting them put me down and letting their Facebook and twitter posts about me get to me.

I've come to the conclusion I'm going to text them and tell them I'm done, no questions need to be asked, just that I'm finished with being walked all over. Can anyone give me ideas of what to say? I'm having trouble getting started and how to word it all. Thanks so much!

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03-06-2014, 12:23 PM
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Instead of choosing the cowards way out (texting), tell them face to face that you don't want to be their friend anymore. Be honest with them and tell them exactly how you feel - tell them you think that they're sluts and don't want to be friends with people with such low self esteem. Although I don't understand what's wrong with "talking" to multiple guys, tell them it bothers you also. Change your number so they can't call you anymore and delete your facebook and twitter accounts, at least temporarily, so you're not continually harrassed. Start going to church and ask your friends to go w/you. Good luck.

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