is this a red flag or am i paranoid?

[ashley]

My husband I have been married almost 5 years and today I look at his instagram and he added a female co-worker, 3 weeks after we agreed no friends of the opposite sex!
This man has a history of cheating, he even went after my sister yikes.
So I went to his work just to show him that I know and he got angry, so I called 2 hours later to see if he needed a ride he said I don't care and hung up. I don't know what to do anymore...

[Billy]

No

[Brown]

baby its a red flag if it was nothing he shouldn't get mad at you , you should be mad at him not the other way around if you guys make an agreement as a married couple you should keep it .

ps. once a cheater always going to be a cheater

[Tom]

i think this is probably a red flag, men often start flirting over the internet to people they know and are close too

[stewsgal]

You stop playing games and creating rules, and you go live a happy life. Probably without him.

[Crankitty]

Log into his instagram account and unfriend this hoochie, then follow it up by telling him the next time he does something like this, you're done with him. The small straw breaks the camel's back.

[Lauren]

Why did you marry him the first place if he has a history of cheating? Obviously he would do it again...

[Tricia]

If you can't trust each other enough to have friends of the opposite sex and he has a history of cheating...you might want to question why you're still with him. I wouldn't be able to stand not trusting a partner. Is this really worse than being on your own would be?