What do you think of what my ex said?

[A]

My fiancé and I split up 2 months ago-because he refused to unblock me from social media. I think that is a red flag. He said he'd never fix it so it was over. Anyway he knew I had already bought his Christmas gift, something he has wanted for years. Well of course I didnt give it to him because we are not together. Over the last 2 months every time I've heard from him he has asked about that gift, which to me seems like that's all he cared about. Then he tried to say we could work it out, so we talked but when he refused to fix it again, I said this is too shady and secretive for me it's over. Anyway he calls yet again today to ask about the gift. I told him I trashed it. Which I did because I was ticked off that he wouldn't fix it because I saw then that he only wanted to work it out to get his gift. When I told him what I did he went ballistic calling me stupid and telling me to lose his number and stay out of his life. To me that says that gift was all he was worried about. Was I wrong to trash it? I don't think so. Yes I'm sure someone could have used it, but I was so angry that for years I've went out of my way to make him happy and get him everything he ever wanted and when I realized this was all he cared about it really hurt me so I trashed them.
Thanks everyone for confirming that he is the jerk I believed he was! He has manipulated me so long that I always second guess things, but I know I was right about him and what I did now.

[kate]

All he wanted was the gift. You two broke up, so it would have been better to return it (so you could get your money back), but you aren't at all obligated to give a gift to an ex. If you want to, fine, if you don't that's also your choice. He sounds both shallow and manipulative, I think you're better off if you do lose his number and keep people who are more decent in your life.

I think he would have treated you ok until you gave him the gift and once he had it he would have turned back into a jerk.

[Kathy]

I would have done the same thing,except I would have sold his gift but same thing he would have never seen it. Good for you I am glad you don't have the jerk in your life!!!I am happy you didn't take him back to be used,I really hope you ate going to move forward and find a great guy who will love you,respect,treat you like a princess not a door mat,so be careful have a good time finding Mr.right.

[Mello]

Sounds like he was trying to control you. You my dear are better off without him. Seems like he was just in it for material things. I wouldn't have given it to him either.

[Shania]

You did the right thing! I would not have peed on him if he was on fire! Forget him girl! U can find what the right one. Patience it will happen. But really OMG...WHAT A TOOL!!

[Sing2!]

He is a jerk and keeping you blocked is not him being in a committed relationship anyway! You are not losing anything at all here. Just move forward and pick a better partner next go round! Good luck and smile, life is beautiful!

[Legandivori]

Blockjhis emails, etc. He is a total a-hole. Do not answer the phone if he calls., Speak to the cops about what he said. Show them emails if any. Ask how he can be prevented to contact you ever legally.

[Jackamoe]

What an ass. I would have returned it or sold it, or even ruined it in front of him. He only wanted the gift.

[Fate84]

yea don't worry about him. Sounds like he is being selfish and controlling and not trying to make y'all work. Hes a waste of brain cells lol so dont worry about him and his motives anymore