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CHERRY LIPS · 03-07-2014, 08:27 PM

My partner and I had a mutual single female friend from his hometown ( more his friend than mine - but she wasn`t what would be considered a close friend - more of a social event aquiantence, Every post he does she instantly likes, if he posts a birthday message on a friends wall - her post is next in line ! If he comments on his own stuff - she then comments on it with copious amounts of xxs & Hun on the end ! ! she`s online till extremely late and so is he but only when I am at work ! I have asked him if he chats to her on there & he says No ( Im 95% convinced he`s not telling me the truth ! ) Anyhow to cut a long story short I asked her what she was playing at - she instantly got extremely assy with me & we fell out ! - she said I was mental & needed a Dr for my paranoia ! along with a few choice words I deleted her from my " friends " list !, He says that me falling out with her doesn`t change anything between us ( should think so too after 20yrs of being together ! ) He also says that he didn`t fall out with her so he`s not going to delete her !! What would you do if you were in this situation ????

MissG509 · 03-07-2014, 08:36 PM

Maybe shes just lonely and bored. Unless he starts sneaking out of the house, I wouldn't worry. His ego probably gets a kick out of it. Just start tagging yourself more on his stuff and laugh her off.

womansworld · 03-07-2014, 08:39 PM

I think you are worrying about nothing. you have admitted that his girl is a friend of his and you coming across to her as a jealous girlfriend is bound to stir things up.

There are a lot out there who have nothing better to do that be on facebook and comment on everyone's posts - I know people like that myself.

If she was genuinely after your b/f or he her, they would email NOT via public posts.

As I what I would do ? Well stop acting jealous and stop trying to chose your b/f's friends. If you are old enough to have a b/f for 20 years, you are old enough not to get upset by what Facebook says or doesn't say - leave that for the teenagers hey ?