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(Girls) if you're busy, would you want your partner to give you space or still talk to you?
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(Girls) if you're busy, would you want your partner to give you space or still talk to you?
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(Girls) if you're busy, would you want your partner to give you space or still talk to you?
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03-08-2014, 02:42 AM
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(Girls) if you're busy, would you want your partner to give you space or still talk to you?
So I'm basically "seeing" this girl. It's been a week since our first date. Let's just say that she's been really busy with school and work altogether.we haven't really had a full on conversation because she told me that she has been busy so that's why I'm giving her some space and not talking to her. But I'm convinced enough that she likes me back. I thought she was making excuses and blowing me off but then She sent me this message via facebook saying, "Maybe you thought I was ignoring you but trust me I wasn't you've been on my mind a lot. In a good way! Idk really I just thinking about how much fun I had with you. We need to do it again soon!"
Anyways here's my question. Knowing that she is busy till early this coming week, how can I ask her on a second date without not coming across as needy( I've asked her 2 days after the first date and that's when I found out that she's busy) or should I just wait till she tells me when she's free? Girls, do you think I have to continue talking to her because I've been thinking that if I don't like we always do, she'd think that I do to Ike her back but I don't want to make an impression as a "needy" guy as well.. How should I deal with this problem? TYPO AT THE LAST PART.. (She'd think that I dont* like her back.....) Ads |
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03-08-2014, 02:43 AM
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Just be like hey! When your free we should definitely grab a bite and catch this movie I really wanted to see. Let me know if your keen!
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03-08-2014, 02:59 AM
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Ask her out again, just be like i know you're busy and all but i would like to take you out on a second date. Its been a week i think you should do it. You would only be needy in my opinion if you ask her like every day or very often. Ask her when will she have time. At least that'll seem like you're still interested in her, since she thinks about you alot.
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03-08-2014, 03:03 AM
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Just say something like, Well I'd love to see you again. Hopefully some time soon. But I know you're busy which is why Ive been trying to give you space. Maybe we can get together next week? If not, I'm game for an impromptu meeting for coffee or something. Just text me. The ball is in your court now. If I don't hear from you then ill understand.
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03-08-2014, 03:06 AM
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Oh ok soo here's the deal just text her when you can and quit asking to hang out. If the girl wants to hang out she will let you know im kinda in a situation where i know my boyfriend wants to hang out but i cant because im not aloud. You may be coming off as needy but it depends on the girl. Just take things day by day and see how it plays out.
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03-08-2014, 03:09 AM
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Just maybe leave her messages. Like yeah when girls are busy we need time to focus or whatever she's doing, but it would be nice to just check your phone or whatever and have the message of the guy you went to a date with recently. When she's not busy anymore then you should ask her on another date. I personally think she's into you.
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