Should my 14 year old friend have sex?

[Mary]

See he's 14 and in the eighth grade but he told me that last summer him and an adult who is nameless (because he didn't even tell me) had an orgasm and i'll be texting him on facebook and he'll be talking about how a SEVENTH grader keeps wanting him to have sex with him and the seventh grader has a boyfriend which is my bestfriend's other best friend and I don't want anyones feelings to get crushed and the 7th grader already had his first and I don't think any of them should be doing anything but this is Princeton, Illinois so its messed up but what should I do people? And please don't give me smart ass remarks or those stupid grown up speeches they are very annoying and retarded and I don't even do that.

[Audrey]

I'm 14, we teens have a sex drive, it's part of growing up and we have to learn to control it. Explain to him the dangers of having sex this young, they are so many consequences that just aren't worth it....

[rem]

Well there really isnt anything you can do except try to give them the best advice you can, like telling your friend that you think it would be a bad idea for him to have sex with the 7th grader since it might mess up your friendships plus the 7th grader has a boyfriend which would probably just start a big problem. I would mostly try to stay out of it if I were you, except while still doing what you need to do as a friend. I hope this helps you, good luck.

[Jackson]

a lot of kids have sex nowadays at that age. nothing you can do except provide protection if they're determined.

[Mad about 69]

Not really but it happens, once testosterone kicks in it is hard to stop any male teen wanting to have or even having sex.

[kyrah]

This is why I hate America