guy best friend is obsessed...?

[MissEquestrian]

My best friend is obsessed with me. He is very caring and very nice, and will do anything for me. He treats me like I'm his gf, and I have told him I am uncomfortable with it because I do not feel the same way about him (he has told me he loves me). I love him strictly in a best friend/ brother way. Whenever I'm texting he tries to read over my shoulder. I even found out he went on my facebook to read some of my conversations. He's having a very hard time understanding I do not like him the way he likes me. I told him I would try so we went out on a date and everything, and the agreement was that if I didn't like it he would stop trying to date me. That hasn't happened. I feel really badly, and Idk what else to do without hurting his feelings because it's beginning to become annoying. Any input is helpful.

[所有的主人]

Why not give him one more chance? Tell me do you think any one can be like this guy for you?

[PEGGY S]

You are going to have to disconnect yourself from this guy. As long as you remain friends with him, you are giving him hope that you will some day love him. Tell him that you are sorry but he has disrespected you by not respecting the fact that you are not and will never be in love with him. Tell him that you hate to end the friendship, but he refuses to guilty making you uncomfortable, so you have to do it.

Let me explain something to you. Guys will only be your friend for several reasons: They are gay. They are not attracted to you at all. They want to be your bf. if he is not gay, and you know he thinks you are attractive, then he is there, not as a true friend, but to monitor your actions, and wait until he sees a vulnerable moment to jump in and impress you by saving you. He thinks that will change your mind about how you feel for him.. He is not a true friend because his motives are selfish! Get rid of him before he becomes your permanent stalker!