facebook privacy question!?

[dresdendrew]

I just made a facebook. I don't want anyone to be able to search me or anything. I made it so that no one can search me, but i don't want people to see that i have a facebook UNLESS i add them. I added people on facebook & now on their wall it says _____is now friends with Dresden. I don't want that to come up on their wall because then their friends can click me & see my wall & add me. Is there ANY way that i can make it so that i don't come up on their wall, & if i do, people who i am not friends with cannot see it? PLEASE HELP!
i did go onto my friends account who i am not friends with yet on facebook & went on to the friend that i am friends with's wall and clicked the notification on their wall that said ____is now friends with dresden, just to see if they would be able to see my wall, and they were. i blocked everything on my wall from people i don't know, but they still saw my wall. i just don't people to see me UNLESS i add them!!!

[Guy A]

I believe that even if someone sees on your friends wall '________ is now friends with Dresden', I don't think they can see your profile.
Also if people add you, you do have the option to decline their add and you can even block them, which means they can't search you or even go on your profile at all.

[Dmitry N]

Unfortunatly, you can't do this. Your profile and most of your posts in public groups can be found with Google. There is a special service powered by Google search around Facebook: Facebook Search site listed below. No Matter which privacy settings you've got one can find you by Name, interests etc.
Good Luck)