Guys help! wats the reason why my Ex bf is doing this?

[Aliciahi5]

well my ex and i dated for one year, im his first girlfriend. Im 21 and hes 20. He left me cuz he said he lost feelings and assured me that there wont be another chance. This was late july. We spoke a few times after the break up but we havent spoke for about 3 months...untill now!

this is what has been going on:

-he created a fake myspace page and said he lives in my town (which he doesnt and he doesnt know anyone from here except me)

-calls my house on private every now and then (i checked in with the phone company and yes it was from him)

-he created a facebook cuz i had one... then i deleted him off facebook and he readded me on xmas eve.

-he messaged me on xmas eve saying merry xmas and send me 4 kisses. I wrote you too and he never wrote anything back. kisses? wtf?

-hes making his best friend message me and asking me random question about what im doing.


so id like the males to answer this question...why is he doing all of this? hes the one that dumped me! very confused, help?

[Blue SKY]

He's a freak and a stalker who can't let go. My advice is to cut him off entirely and block him on any social media sites.

[Mohamed A]

Well let me tell you when I first got in relationship after a while I felt like I've made a mistake it's like I just rushed into the relation because I liked the girl but didn't really love her but because she was the first in my life and I had no experience I couldn't really tell whether I love her or just attracted and then I broke up with her but here's what happened things changed between us and we rarely talked and alike then I started to feel like I miss all that talking between us and I miss the moments we had together and I miss everything so I tried to contact her and she was kinda defensive and tried to keep a distance and that actually made me want her more you know there's a saying that says you never know how precious they are until they are out of your life. So that's what's happened to me. Now from experience I can tell you that first relations rarely work. Let's say in most cases it's the lesson you learn to be able to find a true lover. Now why is he acting like this he just missed you and he wants to know about you. And he's acting a little creepy because he's jealous may be. I was too when I saw my ex talking and hanging out with guys other than me and trying to push me away.
Hope that helped

[jojo21]

jealous, maybe. Wants to know if your seeing anyone else. Sounds a bit stalkerish, if you want to get back together then maybe try and touch on that subject. If not then restraining order. Sounds like just childish bs

[Tony]

he is trying to blackmail you to get you back