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If you and your spouse have facebook pages, should you be on the others page?
03-10-2014, 12:16 AM
Post: #11
 
Me and my husband have a joined FB page. So no issues there. Doesn't your stepson know that his dad is married to you now? I don't get it. You did the right thing, especially given your husband's past. I don't see ANY reason not to have you added on his FB page as his wife, openly. Nothing to hide there.

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03-10-2014, 12:19 AM
Post: #12
 
My Husband and I share the same Facebook page. His x-wife is in our friend network. That kind of wierds us both out but for his 2 kids, we keep her as a 'friend'. We have no secrets between us.
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03-10-2014, 12:22 AM
Post: #13
 
Well, did you contact the woman? And if so, whats wrong with that... I mean, he accuses you of contacting a woman so whats the big deal with contacting a woman? I don't see anything wrong with what you did. He is guilty and he is trying to place blame on you.. He is playing the victim game here, making you look like the bad guy for wanting to know what he is doing. Perhaps you should ask him why its so wrong for a wife to be interested in her husbands online activities? Its quite normal.

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03-10-2014, 12:25 AM
Post: #14
 
My husband and I have each other on our pages. It's kind of like holding hands in public. We're proud of each other and we want everyone to know that we're together. We don't have any trust issues between us because we're open about everything. Usually when something is hidden, it's something they're ashamed of or they know it's wrong. So if you can't even be friends online...it'd be a red flag for me.
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03-10-2014, 12:28 AM
Post: #15
 
Facebook has caused a lot of problems in some peoples relationships. I suggest both of you not have facebook accounts. They can stay in touch by emails or by phone. How did they keep in touch before facebook. That's disrespectful for you and him not to be friends on facebook. What's he hiding?
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03-10-2014, 12:42 AM
Post: #16
 
Uh, yes, you should be on your husband's facebook page and if you're not he's hiding something. I want to elaborate but really, is there any reason? It's a yes or no question and YES, you should be on your husband's facebook page.

You know, I will elaborate. Even talking to women online is a form of cheating; it's emotional cheating. He is flirting and talking to other women for what? To get his rocks off? And if it's not a big deal then you should be on his FB page. Ugh, I'm angry for you. Your husband sounds like an A*S!

Besides, on the FB profilie it asks, are you married, and if you are who you are married to and then it shows up right under your picture.
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03-10-2014, 12:50 AM
Post: #17
 
There are so many things wrong with your statements above, I don't even know where to begin.

For starters, the fact that the women on Facebook don't even know he's married is AWFUL. I would kill my husband if he didn't have me as his friend on Facebook! He should have pictures of you two as well on there!

It also really bothers me that you said he has prior issues with cheating and meeting women on the Net. Do you think you are someone DIFFERENT? Just because he is married to you, does NOT mean he is not cheating on your or seeking women out over the Net.

Sounds to me like you will never trust him.

As far as your options go, I would just report his page to Facebook saying he's harassing you. They'll take his whole profile down. There. No more Facebook. But in regards to the insecurities you're harboring inside in the pit of your stomach because of his previous cheating, well, that can only go away by you leaving him and finding a man who does NOT make you feel like that.....that's what I did!!!
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03-10-2014, 12:52 AM
Post: #18
 
Why can't people just use their emails to keep in contact with loved ones? Or a phone.
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03-10-2014, 01:08 AM
Post: #19
 
I am sorry. I do not get the whole Facebook thing. I have read where it causes divorces, have read where it has cost people their jobs etc. Why put yourself thru that???

Bottle line, why don't both of you delete Facebook, and get in the real world of each other. You and your husband can use email to keep up with family and friends. Better yet, call them on the phone or get in the car and go see them!!
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03-10-2014, 01:11 AM
Post: #20
 
You are not wrong at all to feel the way you do. My husband & I both have facebook pages and we have access to each others. There is no reason for your husband to be so secretive if he had nothing to hide. He is obviously chating with other women and does not want you to know about it. Lie as he will, you know he's up to no good when he keeps it from you.
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