how to not get hurt and still take a chance?

[baby girl]

What could i do about this?
there's a guy who was leaving a job at the local market just as i was being hired.

he seems cool, and is always paying attention to little things like making faces and asking me about myself, basically he sounds like a nice guy...

but then i realized he has a girlfriend, and she looks just like me except she is chubbier and has shoulder length blonde hair like me. similar facial structure.

IDK today was his last day and i told him i sent him an add on Facebook and when i told him i requested him he said he'd have to log in and check it when he got home.

long story short, his profile picture is of him and his GF. does that mean he's suer committed to her? having her be in his profile picture and all... are my chances of dating him significantly reduced because he's already with someone?

they're not married, but she is his girlfriend. not sure what to do, so for now I am doing nothing and that's why i posted this question: to get a better perspective on things.

[â™ Merlin â™]

you dont want to get hurt, yet you risk dating a guy who has a girlfriend
so you KNOW if he dates you he is the kind of guy to cheat ???

come on
you must see how messed up that is

[Sharon]

Well, i would only say that you shouldn't really interfere with their love and be happy for him. It's alright if you get along with him and u might not know it, but he may fall for you. It's his choice to choose who he wants to be with, but really, just don't make their love go bad. Plus, your going to find a husband or bf soon, so don't be depressed if nothing happens

[lola]

He was probably just being friendly, and you probably don't have much of a chance with him. He may just naturally be a flirty person, and you misread his interest in you. From the sounds of it, he didn't ask you out, and he didn't hide the fact that he's in an relationship, so why would you think you'll end up dating him soon?

[SmithCycle20]

Theres more of a payout the bigger the risk