i need advice please! i think i am bisexual?

[Happah]

I have asked this question today, but noone answered it, and i am asking it again hoping someone will give me some advice... Please

Well i am 15 and a girl, and maybe ever since i was 12 or 13 i have been attracted to girls, well i have had boyfriends in fact many. But never a girlfriend, because everybody knows me as a straight kind of gal! The point is... well there is this girl at my school who is bisexual and i didn't really have anything to do with her and yesterday she went up to me and told me she likes me, i thought it was a joke... and later on i found out it wasn't and my friends told me, that they are not going to criticize me, and if i give it a shot with this girl that it wouldn't change anything between us.


NOW, the problem is i am afraid of sooo many, things...

Afraid of what the people will say at school when they see us,
Afraid of what my mom would say because she is very religous (i want to hid it from her)



What i want is for maybe, some of you would give me some advice or personal stories, it will give me a boost, i would be really grateful (:

[Jason Cowl]

Hi. I am also 15 years old. I am an ftm in the closet but have many friends who are gay or bi. I know what you are going thru right now. Your mind is racing wonder what your friends and family will think of you once come out to them about dating another girl. It can be very difficult with a parent who is unaccepting of gays. My advice is wait a little while. In time you will know if you like boys or girls. If you would like to talk person to person I have facebook. My name is Jason Cowl and my profile pic is of a golden retriever dog.

[Sara]

I tried it twice my mum is like ur mum and my whole life like this but i said to my self to give it a try and believe me its so hard when u make something in secret and eventually no secret stay secret in my opinion ur still young and ur thoughts still not yet known what u want to be so take ur time think wild and open because what u about to do will change ur whole goals and way of living in the future just think and think and be careful dnt let anyone play with ur mind do what y believe in and what u r comfortable with gdluck

[Zzanimal88]

If you are afraid of every thing and every thing people say and think you will never move forward in life and find out who you really are and not what people want you to be. You don't hide it, you just don't bring it up until you are no longer in the home. There really are some secrets that should never be told and many people have these secrets.

[Fitz]

theres no shame in waiting to come out. you could simply tell this girl that even if you are interested your just not in a place in your life where you feel safe coming out, or being in a same sex relationship. your young, and are still going to be trapped with your parents for a few more years. if you upset your mom with this now its going to make your home life a lot more complicated. im not saying you have to stay in the closet, in fact the only way to get rid of the fear is to face it and just start telling people, but theres no shame in waiting until your old enough to live on your own and choose your own supporting family of friends. Your very lucky to have the supporting friends you have now. a lot of us dont even have that when we come out. you may just want to keep this between you guys until your in a better safer position to tell others, but if you truly feel like now is the right time, just coming out can be very satisfying and empowering. i felt a lot batter about everything when i started telling people, but i was about 17 when i came out, and almost out of school already.