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annoyed with my bff being inappropriate on twitter, what would yu do?
03-13-2014, 03:34 AM
Post: #1
annoyed with my bff being inappropriate on twitter, what would yu do?
my best frend is my everything. i love her too death. but i have a problem with her and i am not sure if i have a right to be annoyed with her. we have alot of similarities and alot of differences, she likes to flaunt her sexual side, i feel thats private; she likes to tell everyone where she is and that she's drunk and she does this over fb and twitter. i am annoyed with it because i knw that when ppl see a sleazy girl with a group of frends, they assume her frends are sleazy. so if ppl read her tweets and get certain idea baout her they'll have the same opinion of me becaus i am always with her. i dont like this fact because i want to be judge on who i am, not on the assumption of me becuase of her. idk wither this is something i'll just have to endure becuz i hve told her once before her words and actions reflect on me as do mine on her.
what would u do?

examples of her tweets (ex: i want head right now, he says he has the best sex with cancer imma a cancer, he like the way my ass look in a thong, he gotta good strong tongue and last night he was flickn it like a pro, me and lexi are at club beso so drunk!)

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03-13-2014, 03:46 AM
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It looks like you are out growing her and that is ok. Sometimes friendship changes and you have to move on. Even if you love them, you have to let that friendship go. If you friend is acting all sleazy trust when I tell you people will think the same about you. Remember birds together flock together. I had to let a close friend go because of the way she was living her life. I didn't try to change her or tell her to stop during it, I just move on. I miss her but I can't go there

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03-13-2014, 04:01 AM
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i think you should just get past it, i mean more people focus on the actuall person writing the stupid shit then whos with them at the moment their talking about. your friend is probably going thru a phase where she thinks its "cool" for people to know every single detail of what shes doing. including being drunk, or her sex life and private shit like that. she'll only get over it in time. so i wouldnt sweat it, if the people who judge you dont know you then who gives a shit, and if they do know you then they probably know you better then what she puts on facebook.
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03-13-2014, 04:12 AM
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Gross . Talk to her like seriously . She needs to be considerate.
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03-13-2014, 04:19 AM
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I find it interesting that you're more interested in how her drinking and sleeping around affects YOUR reputation, than why she is acting so self-destructively.

The fact that she's broadcasting to anyone and everyone around that she's drunk and sleeping w/different men speaks to a desperate person who may or may not be alcoholic, and may or may not have been exposed to sex too early (possible molestation/rape).

Whether or not you choose to continue being friends with her, I hope you find the decency to be the one person who stands up and shows concern for her physical and mental health ... the person who suggests she gets counseling to deal with behaviors that could lead to alcoholism (if she isn't alcoholic already), STDs, rape, or HIV/AIDS.
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