Girl I like confusing me?

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So there is this girl I like who has been my friend for nearly 2 years. We are both in the same class at college together. A few months ago she broke up with her boyfriend, and me and her have gotten a lot closer since then. My feelings for her have only developed in the last month or so and now I really like her. But I don't know if she feels the same way. She keeps going cold on me. One minute she seems really into me, the next she seems distant and into another guy. Whenever she's into me, she keeps hugging me or leaning on me, she knows I'm ticklish so she always tries to tickle me, we text each other quite a lot and she always puts kisses on the end, she texts me even when we are in class together asking if I'm okay (apparently sometimes I looks really sad) and texts me with some of our 'in jokes' when she could just say to me in person, which confuses me. She has even come round to mine for the day and we just ended up play fighting (tickling) and cuddling in bed, watching tv and we've been to the cinema (just us). We sometimes sexually flirt as well (talking about her boobs). But then she will go cold on me and start talking to this other guy who she works with and is her ex's best friend. She texts him all day at college and she even goes round to his house a lot. She posts some of their texts on twitter (I don't why, at first I thought she was trying to make her ex jealous) and they are pretty dirty. She also goes to nightclubs with him (they both have the same friendship circle) and I've heard that she gets off with him and other guys when she's drunk. She refers to him as her friend though and says she doesn't get along well with females. This other guy she talks to is some ugly, weedy guy, where as I'm good looking and muscular (I know it sounds really cocky but its what I get told often). I've made it pretty obvious that I like her and I've even gone as far as to say that I want her naked in my bed (she replied with "Really? Why me?"). I'm thinking that I'm severely friendzoned and don't have a chance with her now. It hurts because I'm crazy about her and I have to see her nearly every day.
What do you think? Friendzoned?

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You're not friendzoned, to me it sounds like she's just being single! It might seem like she's messing you both around but I know that since recently splitting with my boyfriend i talk to a number of guys and am just keeping my options open in that sense. If you really like her and want to take it further I'd suggest to just speak to her about things and see what she says, that way you know where you stand Play her at her own game a bit! Flirt, be cheeky, hug other girls, even don't reply to her texts so quickly... it might sound harsh but it works ha. Good luck.