Bad Home, Bad Parents. Please Help!?

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Hey guys, thanks for checking out this question, I hope to god to get answers as quick as possible to help my life get better.

Alright, so I am having some problems at home, and have had for about a year and more. My parents are constantly mad at me, and only me. Everything I do gets screamed at (even though its not really anything to scream and shout at me about). I feel like everything I do is wrong, and that my parents think I'm a failure and a waste of life, I fell like they hate me and wish I was never born.

My mother is always angry when I do homework, and if I'm a little tired she starts to push up some bedtimes at me (by the way, I'm 15). My parents doesn't trust me on anything, not anything! They skim trough my homework to see if its properly done, they are very strict on my grades, a C on a test is not good enough, no matter how difficult it was. When I am at school, they look trough all my clothes, all my personal stuff and my computer. They force me to give my passwords to everything (from YouTube accounts to RuneScape accounts!). One night, I made a twitter account and when I came back from school my parents already knew I have made another account on the internet without telling them the password, I told them the password, the next day my account on Twitter was deleted by them, they then told me that Twitter is for adults, I mean, can't I have some freedom?!

I don't get any money from them, even though I do alot of chores in the house every day. All the money I can ever get is a few bucks on cristamas and my birthday. Thats all the money I can make. So say now, I wish to start vocal training, but it costs money, I have to wait a year just to get those lousy 30 Bucks! They don't support me in anything I do, wich I believe any good parents should do. Like one time, my parents "caught" me singing a song in my room, they just said I should shut up, and slammed my door back, I don't really sing that false and even if I did... parents should not do that with their kids, right?

And when its about my homework for school, say its something difficult that I could need some help with cause I don't quite understand the subject, they refuse to help me. They just shout at me like "You are supposed to do that yourself, we're not doing YOUR homework, now do your homework, NOW!"


Please help my guys, it sucks to be me. Tell me any solutions I could discuss, but make them nice, cause my parents are like 8 year olds with anger problems, seriously.

[♥ Emmy ♥]

call child services. or someone. seriously you should. i was gonna suggest talking to a counselor, but your parents would probably say no.

your only other choice is to talk to your parents.

[Chloe]

Tell them the truth, which is you'd like to have a better relationship with them with less screaming and more good times. You can't make them change anything but telling them you WANT that is a step in the right direction.

If they continue to be arseholes, you'll have to deal with it until you can move out. But you seem like a good kid to me. Keep on being a good kid.

Privacy's a weird issue, parents sometimes can't handle the idea of their kid seeing anything and everything or being able to communicate with everyone and anyone. Most kids don't get victimized but the stories of ones who do are enough to send chills down a parent's spine that never quite go away.

You should be able to sing. Don't let them scare that out of you, please....

[Josh Arial]

My parents do some of the things that you described like they need to know almost every password that i have mainly to msn and any chat websites. They check my homework and they like me to have good grades they always want me to do good. But to me this is just because They were treated like that as a child. You should talk to them, try to reason with them and figure out some ground of what you need to do and what you have freedom to do. Trust me if you talk to them and tell them about what you feel, if they are half decent people they will listen to you

[Kaden]

Tell them to fuck themselves. delete your internet history. if they punish you, like ground you, then dont listen. Stand up for yourself. if they whip u, whip them bak.