Girls: where does our relationship stand?

[Circleunbroken]

I met my sisters housemates when I went to visit her, when I was there I got really close to one, we spent the entire night out together, we never once left each other's side and we were always talking. Nothing really happened but I believe something could have if I attempted more than once. (Attempt one ended after she punched me in the face by accident) The next day she made me breakfast without asking me and I left soon later, I wanted to talk to her but I couldn't because she was in her dressing gown and PJ's and my sister didn't want me to see for some reason, because you know, she wasn't dressed head to toe or anything, it was too inappropriate for me to see her that way.

Anyway, I eventually added her on Facebook, and because Facebook on IOS suck, she didn't appear in my chat box, so I never knew when she was online, I knew I had to talk to her for it to do that though, and I wanted to talk to her. But because I'm a complete idiot when I messaged her I sent her a joke that could have been interpreted badly, which it did. She didn't reply and my sister text me telling me to leave her alone. Obviously I ignored that as the next day I decided to stop hating myself for ruining everything and apologise, so I did, she replied saying she knew it was a joke and found it funny but found it completely unexpected. We had a short conversation after she reassured me everything was fine and she wasn't bothered by it then left it there.

I wanna talk to her again but I don't wanna annoy her by talking to her everyday when I may be going back down again soonish. The thing is, I do like her, she is a really nice girl, but we live miles away from each other so I doubt a relationship would be a good idea, so I'm aiming for the latter which is to simply have sex with her. But before I do that I wanna make sure she wants that too, if she did want a relationship which I doubt she does, I would give it a chance, but I can't come visit every week and I can't stay for more than the weekend.

Where do you think our relationship stands?

[Dani]

I'm sorry but if she isn't taking time out of her day to text you or message you I think you should just move on

[bluebird]

It seems like it was just a flirt night. Like 'Hey.. my friends brother is here, lets have some fun' but didnt actually mean for it to be a serious thing. By replying to your apology she was probably just being nice. I would say shes interested in you yet, just nice and having fun. Next time you visit your sister, see if the friend is excited to see you or anything, if so, you can progress and see if she want to do anything further. Good luck!

xoxo

[kittyRawR]

Long distance relationships are hard.
But, really sex? Is that all you want out from her? Its nice that you respect her decisions too.
Just be straight out with her and ask her out if you are really interested in her.
I have a cousin who dated a guy from CA and she lived in MN and thats like 2-3 days of driving from Cali to Minnesota. He has been visiting her during the weekends for 6 years now and they both are happily married. If you really like her and would go the extra mile then sure, talk to her about it, see what she says.

If you guys do go out, work out how often you both can see eachother and hangout together.
Goodluck.