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is this bulling help!?
03-15-2014, 01:06 AM
Post: #1
is this bulling help!?
ok so this girl i think shes a bully but my friends well ill explain: so this girl will take you and be your best friend and you don't notice but you are being really mean to your other friends and your like under her spell. so all of my other friends where all like dont be her friend and i was like shes really nice... but actually u and her where mean to everyone else but u thought it was just like normal. and so she did this to me and all of my 6 other friends secrectly hated me then she "dumped" me and stopped hanging out with me and really talking to me all together! and when shes ur friend u gossip ALOT! so before she hated my bff caz she thought she was crazy and annoying but then all the sudden she became bffs ( the evil one became bffs with the one she use to hate) and then she did the same thing she did to me Sad and i lost my bff to a mean person for like 4 months and noone liked them they were like the evils and ya so then she dumped her and became bffs with my other bff and then i got really mad caz she was being so mean to me and my friends and so ya... Sad then she would start to like rub my old bff in my face. so heres the part that i think is bulling she would post pictures on instagram (instagram is my LIFE no joke hehe) well so the evil person shared account passwords to "hack" each others account and the evil one knew what really annoyed me and makes me mad so she knew exactually how to hurt me Sad grrr and she posted (the evil girl) a pic saying hacked by ur asian bestie!!!!!!!1 with like loads of emojis and hashtags! and then she changed her profile pic to them together and posted more of them face timing and put stuff about how my bff apparenly loves the evil girl on my bffs wall and that made me mad also at school she phisically grabs my friend when i maybe get to talk to her and runs away from me so when ever my bff would get to maybe talk to me the evil girl would grab her and run away wispering and then she would (the evil girl) do that to all my friends! ;( then she started taking (turning) all my friends against me like huddel up wispering and i didnt want to pout so i tryed to join in and she would walk away or say its privet also i posted a pic of me doing the squirpen and the splits and she practiced all day until she could do that to and started telling everyone she could do it and better than me and today she showed my friends right infront of me just to annoy me Sad and my friend says she does this on purpose just to annoy me Sad y waste ur time trying to bully me yyyyyy? also she called me a slut a b!tch s h0e also many more and we r 12 and idk what to do so she basically hipmotized one all of my friends being mean and i only have one friend thats caz the evil girl hates her 2 i dont know what to do she just looks and acts like a quiet asian girl who is good but shes really not Sad hellllllppppp mmmmeeere also i dont want to get the teacher "friendship" helper into this caz the evil girl will spread rumors that im making her go to this thearpy thing caz shes mean also there was a problem that didnt envolve her and she yelled at me and told everyone i was crying i saw her tell alot of people srry if i got a little personal but i need help this has been going on sence september and im really sad and mad :'( help plz srry for spelling and puncuation errors im tired plz read this and thanks for reading this its like really long Smile PLZ HWLP ME IS THIS BULLING?

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03-15-2014, 01:08 AM
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Yeah, that's burling, you should get a bodyguard Kevin Costner style

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03-15-2014, 01:10 AM
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I don't know if you could prove it. Best to stay away from her and try not to react to anything she does. This will take the fun out of it. When your friends realize you are back to normal they might come back. Change your passwords and ignore her. She will leave you be or get angry and make a huge mistake.
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03-15-2014, 01:14 AM
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Yes, it is bullying...and harrassment. I know it bothers you a lot...but, the BEST thing you can do is to act like you are better than her (like you know her deepest, darkest, ugliest secret)....and ignore her public outbursts. She finds her power in manipulating people, and making people feel inferior to her. Yes, she is an evil witch... don't give her a moment of your attention, and ignore her completely. When she says or does something publicly, don't say a word....just look at her and smile your most sneaky, smug smile (like you know her secret).. toss your head up in the air like you own the world, and walk away. Don't cower down and look at the ground, or act like a whipped puppy running away with it's tail tucked between it's legs...that is what she wants your reaction to be...that body language tells her she has won, and defeated you.

It's all about perception...what she thinks is going on in YOUR mind... if you fear her, she knows it. If you're mad or upset, she knows it. NEVER let your enemy know what you are thinking. Slip a typed note in her locker secretly (and nobody should know you did it) that says 'I know your deep dark secret. Someday soon everyone else will know it too'.
Then sit back and watch how she acts. This kind of girl will be the mean slut in high school. Really care if she is your friend? Your other friends will figure it out for themselves. Just give it time.
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