Should I be upset that my wife of 18 years checks out her ex boyfriends facebook at least 3 times a week?

[Sabastian]

I check the browser history from time to time to see what our 3 boys are up to. I noticed that my wife of 18 years checked out her ex boyfriends facebook profile almost 4 times a week for the past 4 months. We are talking ex boyfriend from teenage years about 24 years ago! For some stupid reason, this is bumming me out! I know it's harmless but is it wrong? Do I mention it or just let it go? Thanks. Serious answers only please.
Thank you all for providing some really thoughtful answers. Hard to pick just one best answer! I'd like to casually question it but then Jayla, you raise a good point that she would be mindful of what she does or take time to erase history.

[Isabel]

Sure. That's one of the big problems of facebook, people wonder and seek out people from their past. And it could be that after 18 years, well, life has changed us all, does kind of make one wonder how things might have turned out if...

Maybe she needs some special attentions, she is remembering the girl she once was, maybe she's forgotten who she really is. Maybe it's time to let her see that girl you fell in love with. A little romance can be a wonderful thing you know. Stop thinking about you, and think about what she is feeling and what she may need.

[Vikings]

I think she could be doing it cuz she is curious about him and what he is doing. Maybe you aren't doing something in your marriage??

[Sue C]

After 18 yrs. she surely cannot be in love with them, that's a total impossibility. I believe she's just cking. to see what's going on in their lives today. Odd tho she would be cking. it as often as she is. IF she knows you ck. on what your kids do on the computer, you could just casually mention what you've just noticed & wondered why she's doing it. You surely have every rite to know, as that really is odd for her to be doing that. Think about it & do what you feel is best. I truly don't feel you have a thing to worry about, I would be more curious to know why she's doing it...best to you...

[Richelle]

Question it... Regardless if it's harmless curiosity, it 'may' ease your thoughts and it will let her know that you've noticed and take 'interest' in her new habit. After all, as a guy, we would DEFINITELY be questioned if the table was turned!

[Jayla]

I see no harm in checking on the past, but this shouldn't be over looked. Not that your wife is looking to step out but woman do tend to seek attention from the internet. Don't mention it, it creates an insecurity that will make her start deleting what she does in the internet, which creates a whole new problem. Unless sure stats distancing herself our acting weird. Make sure your giving your wife enough attention, doing kind things, and making her feel loved and appreciated. Major things to take heed to. Most guys are too busy focusing on themselves, it gets easy to lack. Remember a relationship is an important job too. Good luck and don't sweat it. (:

[PassingThru]

Oh, she sounds a little bored to me. Three kids and years later, she's wondering what it could have been like for her. Nothing serious. Let it go.

But try to give her a little special attention. I think it's a good time for a weekend away without the kids.