Is it pity to unfriend an ex on facebook after he broke up with you? feeling very hurt..need your advice..?

[Paris]

Our break up was very painful for me because he dumped me after 2 years having a great relationship, giving no specific reason. I'm still feeling very hurt for not knowing what happened and why he turned to be totally different person than i known. We are still friends on facebook, have a lot of mutual friends as well. but having him there seeing him all happy chi chatting, liking, commenting on all our mutual girlfriends hurts me so much.. i dont want to act irrational and show him that im very hurt. but need some advice on how to handle this right now. He has also been chatting and commenting with an a ex-friend of mine recently..a friend who back stabbed me and he knew it all about it..please tell me what do do? i dont want to make myself look immature either.. NEED YOUR HELP..

[Jabbar]

it is a pity that you put so much significance into something as dumb as fbook, you should remove whatveer you need to from your life to feel more comfortable, there is no use in holding onto negative feelings and emmotions.

[henry]

When are you going to to realize that FACEBOOK isn't a real thing. It is FLUFF. People are realizing what a complete waste of time and how destructive FB can be. Do yourself a favor and stop using FB all together. It is there to advertise to you about total crap. Leave it and be HAPPY.

[Brittany]

Delete you book of faces account & come join twitter/IG land. It waaay cooler & nobody cares about drama just retweetable tweets and pretty likable pictures


or, Keep him as a friend. The best way to destroy him is with kindness. Yeah, that stuff has to hurt but, honestly seeing him "move on" should help you, not hurt you. Should also give you a reason not to be sad, he's obvi not..

[Mama Mia]

It is not immature to refuse to participate in something that remains painful for you. Unfriend him and move on with whatever makes you happy. Your "friends" will be sure to enlighten you about anything news worthy and you need to stop dwelling on the person that you thought was real and who isn't. If someone is bold enough to ask you why you deleted him, simply say, "we are not the same people we thought we were and I really no longer care to hear about it".

[Shannon]

I don't think you should delete him. Me being well, me I always say my ex doesn't know what he's missing so how can he miss me? I may be coming off as weird but I mean keep him as a 'friend' on facebook so whenever you do something awesome and it'll remind him what he missed out on.

Although if you can't handle seeing his posts delete him.

[Safia]

Go ahead and UN-friend him. there's nothing immature in it. i can understand how you are feeling you can confront him about it asking the reason of your break up may be he has find someone else. ask him one last time whether he wants to keep a relation with you or not. If his answer is No then you have every right to unfriend him and move on.
Best of Luck