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I analyze my facebook pictures?
03-15-2014, 08:16 AM
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I analyze my facebook pictures?
if I have nothing to do on the weekend, I will sit there for hours and just analyze my facebook pictures. like if i have a pimple on my face, it will bother me for hours because i worry will other people notice it? i've had times where i've worn an outfit out with some friends and they made no comments, but when i look at it later in pictures, i think - what was i thinking? and so i'll delete any picture with that outfit.

i don't have many girlfriends, but i want to make some. none of my friends like to dress up but me. i always try and make myself looks nice in the chance that i make new friends and they see my pictures and see how stylish i am or pretty i am.

i am incredibly self conscious of my looks in general. i get very mad at myself if my lips are dry or i get a huge zit on my face. i think to myself i should have taken care of my skin better and then will be pissed off for a long time about my past appearance.

i know this may sound wierd...but i do it. any advice to stop? i can't just freely stop...its something i am very insecure about so i need to become secure about it. do people notice small flaws in facebook pictures? do people care at all?
I used to get bullied about how i dressed and now i still think I am not that stylish. i try to be but i dont think i'm like other girls

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03-15-2014, 08:22 AM
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Go read a book.

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03-15-2014, 08:28 AM
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Well hours analyzing your own pictures wow that sounds like BDD (Body dysmorphic disorder) or you are just to much concerned about your look which is common for a lot of girls, but for hours isn't it to much ? ;D
how about instead of looking for the simple tiny flaw , try to appreciate what's pretty things you have and focus on them that's helps boosting confidence and admire your self .
about the outfits go to the mall or any good stores ask them for outfits that can look good on you and not to fancy , or just look on the internet for examples, but the truth is you should dress how you want and not how people , if you like what you wear and you feel comfortable in your own outfit then that's all matter. but if want to dress up in what the majority of society will like and think it's stylish go for it you think that will help you get more confident.

however if you can't make this stop by your own i suggest you to see a therapist and do a couple session.

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