Should I wait or move on? Read description?

[Macey]

Okay so me & my ex boyfriend broke up cause he said he wanted to take a break. He also said he still has feelings for his ex but he said he still loves me. He is dating her now & he even kissed me once while he is still dating her. He said he wants to get back together with me but he says he can't choose what he wants. His friend likes me & he get jealous when he sees me with him. Me & my ex boyfriend have known each other since we were little. I didn't think he'd ever do something like this.. Idk what to do or think! Help!!

[462]

It seems like his feelings are confused! I'd say you talk to him & convince him to think this over. He can't just kiss another girl while is dating someone else, that's disrespectful :/. But things like this happen, he just needs time. But tbh, if he really loved you, he wouldn't have gone back to his ex & if I were you, I wouldn't give him another chance unless I knew he made his final decision and he is worth it. He needs time to figure this out! Best of luck

[Josie]

Move. On. You shouldn't have to ask this. He's playing you and you deserve better. Re read what you wrote over and over until it sinks in.

[Blah]

You need to move on. Nothing good will come out of staying with him. He currently has a girlfriend that he cheated on with you. That doesn't mean you're special, that means that he isn't to be trusted. If he did that behind her back, he will (and probably did) do it behind your back. Every sweet thing he's telling you to make you feel like you're special to him, he's telling her the same things. Why would you want a guy who goes back and forth between you and other girls, and told you right out that he can't decide who he wants more? Him telling you that means he doesn't think much of you. I guarantee if you made a fake account on Facebook or whatever you guys use, of a really hot girl and started messaging him and pretending to be interested in him, he would suddenly think SHE'S special and the one for him. If you want a boyfriend, you should find one who only wants YOU and doesn't tell you to hang around and wait til he's done feeling up some other girl's boobs. It's not right, you can do better.

[grrandram]

This is what happens when girls have low self-esteem. He dumped you because he wanted to take a break and he's taking it by dating his ex. Fine, that's his choice. But he can't have his ex and you. Yeah he says he still loves you, but a lot of good that does you when he's dating his ex. Is that supposed to make you feel all warm and gooey inside? Wow, he still loves you. What a swell guy. Again he SAYS he wants to get back together with you but he's still dating his ex. He can't make up his mind who he wants but he's dating his ex. That seems to be his choice. Do I need to draw you a picture? You didn't think he would do something like this. Well now you know. I think you've known this guy too long. He seems to think he can play you and get away with it and he is. You are clueless as to what is going on. You are on the outside looking in. I would start dating his friend who likes you. Only a complete dummy would wait for the ex. It doesn't matter if he gets jealous if you are with his friend. That's his problem and his jealousy should mean nothing to you. How does he think you feel knowing he's back with his ex? Too bad if he doesn't like it. I would go for the guy who likes me and is available and isn't dating his ex. Tell your ex good luck with his ex.