Need advice on what to about my friend?

[Dave]

Me and my friend (female) are very close, however over the past year our friendship has taken a little down hill slide due to many factors within in both of our lives (nothing we have done to each other) and this is why we haven’t been as close as previous years. Anyway she sent me an invite to her birthday on facebook but didn’t send me the address! I sent her several texts and calls but she never contacted me back. Yet everybody else she invited I presumed went. Fast forward a couple of days and I called her for her actual birthday and wished her happy birthday on facebook and still no reply (liked everyone else congrats except mine). I sent her a detailed message on facebook asking her to please contact me and expressed my feelings to her as a friend and told her I cant fix the problem If I don’t know what I have done and said it will take two of us to make amends. I told her how important she was to me and how many good times we have had together, I also mentioned that at times I thought we would make a good couple (I didn’t confess any love and never have). I was very hostile and didn’t say anything bad about her or the situation. She replied and said I will get back to you soon with a detailed reply… Fast-forward two weeks, I still have no reply! Now she is making me angry and frustrated! What should I do? If I send her a reply, I feel I fear I will lose her forever because she can never confront her problems (this is why im frustrated with her). Im not sure what to do? If she truly cared wouldn’t she reply quickly? Why would she need so long to reply?

[Cat]

She is not worth your time, my friend loves attention and drama. She is obviously like that too. If she is ignoring you and being a b.i.t.c.h when the situation obviously does not call for it, then she is not worth your time and will be like hell to deal with if a real issue arises and if you somehow miraculously date, then you will have plenty of those. Believe me, she is just making you feed the fire, some girls like the feeling of being wanted and sounds like she is doing just that. She isn't replying because she wants you to pour your heart out again and tell her all the things she likes to hear (like when you said how important she was to you) Don't reply and don't make ANY contact with her until she makes contact with you first. If she truly wanted to remain friends with you, she'd make some effort on her part. You've done your part.