I'm worried that my friends don't like me anymore...?

[Georgia]

Basically yesterday I asked my friends if they were free to go out or something today because I hadn't made any plans. One of them said "pass" which kind of offended me-as if she didn't want to see me at all or something. I decided to just forget about it until I logged onto facebook this earlier. It turned out that she went out with 3 of my other friends, one of which is supposed to be one of my best friends and those are the friends I'd also asked to do something with. They all knew I was free so not sure why they didn't ask me. It was quite upsetting to see really. Basically I don't mind the fact that I wasn't there-it was more the fact that they'd kind of lied and didn't bother telling me whether they were free or not. I'm kind of paranoid now that they don't like me and that I've done something wrong but I don't know what. I want to ask them about it but I don't know what to say without annoying them and being bitched about...

[Serenitymaz]

Talk to them and ask them why they did that. Then find a new set of friends.

[Heidi]

I would be hurt as well. Confronting them isn't going to solve a thing. If they went out knowing you wanted to go too but they didn't tell you then they were avoiding you. Asking them why won't produce an answer from them. It will just make them uncomfortable enough to say something that is not the truth. It is probably time to move on to other friends. It is likely that you have had these friends for years and really enjoy their company. But they don't value you. Find some that do.

[Millena]

Talk to them about