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So my ex is blowing up facebook and random things help please?
03-16-2014, 09:49 PM
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So my ex is blowing up facebook and random things help please?
So my ex broke up with me around end Nov. I have been depressed and I begged yada yada... I said sorry I even told her this and that but sometimes id do no contact thing then she would go on these random rants and basically mention her exs name all fun like so I took it. BUT now I am just done with that crap. I just wanna know why she says stuff like "Some things are set on a timeline and just run outa time before we know it." I wanna be like love doesn't have one but facebook does. Anyways I asked a friend he said she is lost and is saying random shit. She even added all her exs on fb. It's annoying cause it's like riddles and most have no meaning. She keeps saying how it's done in a way but yet keeps draggin it on. We were madly in love like no end in sight then one day she changed and wanted friends and this and that. A lot of people said shes going through phase cause college she will snap outta it idk and starting not to care.

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03-16-2014, 10:03 PM
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03-16-2014, 10:11 PM
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she's playing with you,dude. she knows you're watching and is getting off on knowing she could have you at any moment, and you'll take it. it's a power trip of sorts. dont be shocked if she tries to mount you with a strap on one day.

just walk away because you're wasting your time
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03-16-2014, 10:23 PM
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It seems like she added you and is saying all this to try an make you miss her, like sorta messing with your head. I think that is immature. She is just doing it because she knows you can see it that's all, why shes doing it? idk....
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03-16-2014, 10:31 PM
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Well obviously you still care to some degree or else you wouldn't be asking this question about her.

Some people just like to treat Facebook like their diary. The "some things are set on a timeline and just run outa time before we know it" sounds like it could be about you, and that could be how she feels about ending it with you. She may have mixed, confusing feelings about the break-up.
She might just be open about her life and not mind broadcasting it over the internet. I don't know why she's adding her exes, maybe she is getting back at you or trying to make you jealous. Who knows.

It's a good sign that you're starting to get sick of her riddles. Her mind games are immature and the confusion it's causing is getting old, isn't it?

My advice to you is to ignore her sh*t and move on. She's the one who made the decision to break it off, and if she has something to say to you and can't clearly tell you privately, then she's not mature enough and you should just leave it.
Being with someone like her would be like not knowing where you are with her - like you said, one minute you're happy with each other, then out of nowhere, she just wants to be friends.
It's not a stable way to be with someone. It's vital to have security in a relationship.

So just stop trying to decode her posts, maybe deselect 'show in newsfeed' under her name/on her profile so you stop getting updated, ignore her, and move on. She's your ex, it doesn't matter what she's going on about anymore. It is a waste of time and energy.
Divert your attention to spending time with your mates and having a good time, and get into other things. Talk to other girls - even if you're not ready to date again yet, it will let you know on a subconscious level that there are plenty more girls out there, some who will be more open an straight up with how they feel.
Don't be with someone who gives you the run around. You know you deserve better. Anyone who leaves you isn't worth it anyway. Let her go and keep moving forward.
You'll be fine. Take care now. xxx
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