My life is hard right now *Help Needed*?

[bailey]

Well I'll try and start with.. I'm 15 years old and I'm not depressed and I'm not on the verge of killing myself or anything at all I just really want some help, the situation I'm in just pushes me over the edge of feeling terrible every night, I jus moved schools because my new school has a Much better reputation and apparently it will set me up a better future because my parents are into that, but unfortunately I had to leave a few things behind at my old school :/ my friends and te big one.. My girlfriend, you might think it's stupid to think but we've been going out for a very long time now.. Over a year.. And I still get that spark when I see her but since I moved school we've been so upset and I miss her so much and she try's so hard to be supportive but I just feel like she can't cope for much longer BECUASE we are used to seeing eCh other everyday! Now it's only once or twice in a while, and it's making me wanna go back but education is so important.. I'm so stuck with the right decision to make.. Every thought counts to me so I jut wanna know what you think we should do as a couple or what I should do or if it just needs time. I've talked to my parents a lot and also my girlfriend but it's at the point where we are thinking about breaking up it's so hard.. We don't have our own cars or anythin like that so transport is a nightmare...

[Akane]

It's not easy, I get it. But if the two of you really do care about each other then it shouldn't be too hard. Education is the most important aspect of your young life. Maintain a long distance relationship for now, think of it as a test for your devotion. And ultimately, you will get back together if you're in this for real. Wish you good luck. Need to talk, always welcome.

[Ryan]

You're only 15... Dating someone for a year at that age might seem like ages, but trust me as you get older you'll realize how pointless those relationships are. Keep in touch with her and stay friends, but for now just enjoy yourself!

[Dave B]

People change so much through their teens that there's no guarrantee that the two of you would be together 5 or 6 years from now. The two of you should feel free to see others too. With that being said, the here and now is important too, and it sucks that you and the right person are separated. I think that the best thing to do is be feel to spend time with others too, while still staying in touch with phone calls and social media. If the two of you are really meant to be together, then in the future, 3 or 4 years from now, your paths may cross again or you may have the opportunity to be together again.

[Shaun]

Im sorry but I dont agree with everything these guys before me have said. Bud a year is a long time, no matter haw you look at it, I understand that the current situation is putting stress on your relationship and I understand why, yes at your age its nice to see your girl everyday and its nice to speak to her everyday, but the saying goes, absence makes the heart grow fonder. I suggest you strike an deal with your parents, You will do choirs around the house for them and in exchange they take you to see your girl at least twice a week, Its a win win. As for your girl on the other hand, you need to be a romantic guy there, small things are what count but if you could, have a rose or a bunch delivered to her at school while she is in class. Your going to have to show her how much you care for her mate.

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