Does he like me or is he just playing me?

[In pain]

Where do I start?........my friend (male) and I went into a take-away and the guy who served me was really cute but I didn’t think much of it, until we went there a second time and the cute guy was working there again! When he served me, I swear we looked into each other’s eyes for about a minute and I was actually shaken a bit by that encounter. I kept on thinking about him a lot since then, and how I could get him to ask me out. Then I found out he’s on a reality show and that he isn’t just a worker in the shop but actually owns the take-away. The show was quite popular and had 6-7 episodes on him and his family. Now while the show was going on, I used to make up excuses to go in the shop (quite sad I know). I pretended that my cousin was looking for a job and so I got his number to pass on to my cousin. Now we did have the odd little conversations here and there but nothing major and it didn’t help when I was in the shop I would get approached by a lot of guys. I got a bit tired of all this chasing around, so I sent him a text saying ‘I think he’s a nice guy and blah blah’ and all he sent back was ‘thanks’ Now I know I should’ve just asked him out there and then but I just couldn’t. He knew I liked him, I was too obvious and I couldn’t take the pain and embarrassment of seeing him. So I stayed away for about 4 months, I did though check his fb and twitter obsessively and found he was talking to a model a lot, along with some other girls. Due to the show, he has a lot of female attention but it has calmed down since then. It was my birthday, a couple of weeks ago and for some weird reason I decided to go there, now before I went, I made sure I looked super hot. He obviously noticed how nice I looked because he asked where I had been and stuff and I acted all mysterious. Now the following week after I saw him again (not at the shop) and we spoke a little, I looked hot once again (thankfully). Now that same evening, he sent me a dm on twitter referring to the conversation we had, I didn’t really think much of it until he asked me out to an apartment that his family own (They own a local b&b). This was at 3 in the morning, and like a good girl that I am I said no way, so we just carried on flirting over twitter. I twittered him something like call me when you’re so we can hang out and he hasn’t replied. Basically I want to know if this guy actually likes me or not? Sorry it’s so long folks!

[pelican]

It seems like he likes you. Think about it. Be patient. Don't be in a hurry. Give it time and see what develops.