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Libra boyfriend objectifying women online.....?
10-15-2012, 07:53 PM
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Libra boyfriend objectifying women online.....?
My Libra boyfriend of over a year (I'm a Scorpio) started acting paranoid and worried about me talking to other guys. At one point, bc I enjoyed looking at porn, he acted very upset and told me that it "ruined marriages" and sent me all these articles about how wrong and bad it was. I never talk with or chat with other guys, flirt, or do anything period, and haven't the whole time we've been together. I was kind of surprised that he was so upset because to me looking at porn was a highly personal thing you do behind closed doors, etc. I told him I would stop.
Fast forward to the present, (only four months later) my bf has one of a few different Facebook pages, one that he created "just for me" and to which he added my parents and close friends, most of whom he's never met. (We currently have a long distance relationship as he moved out of state a month ago to pursue his career). On this page, he has not only "liked" Burlesque pages and Suicide Girls, but added other females randomly that he does not know in real life, and has begun to "like" their pictures.
I told him that this upset me, along with being very hypocritical of him. He apologized and said he would stop, and that he didn't want to hurt me. The next day, I decided hey, maybe i can make him realize what he has with me, and I actually discussed sending him "lingerie pics" of myself to him, which he totally loved. So I sent several. He kept telling me how much he loved them and wanted more. I thought since we are in a relationship, we talk all the time about love, and he tells me he wants to marry me, I'm his future wife, etc..that this is ok, and continue to send him more pics of me. Everything is fine for a week, but I start to notice that while he is giving me more attention, he's also spending more time "objectifying me", and I ask him nicely if there is a way we can balance out the attention in that way, and just having normal relationship attention and love like we had been having.
Fast forward to the other day, only four days after I had sent him a very risque picture of myself, and I see again.....he is "liking" these maxim girls on his facebook page!!!
This highly upsets me, and he apologizes again and says he can't help it, he's a guy, etc etc....I feel like I've made every effort to appease him sexually myself, and to let him know this upset me and yet it continued. I feel very disrespected, and coming from someone who claimed to be so "concerned over sexual images ruining marriages" only four months ago to prove a point, I think he's a total hypocrite. I don't want to feel like a chump sticking around while he oogles women online. What do I do now?

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10-15-2012, 08:01 PM
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Nasty! You can send the pictures to me instead, I'll promise to be good.

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10-15-2012, 08:01 PM
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Your boyfriend needs to grow up.
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10-15-2012, 08:01 PM
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I think you should just do what you feel like doing and if he objects, you can just tell him to stfu.
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