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am i overreacting for hating my boyfriend because he comments on other girls' photos?
03-18-2014, 12:32 PM
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am i overreacting for hating my boyfriend because he comments on other girls' photos?
he likes photos of other girls and that doesn't really bother me.. but what i hate is the fact that he leaves comments like "sublime" "beautiful, as always" "gorgeous" etc. i havent talked to him about it yet because i'm not sure if it's just me being jealous and insecure, or if other people would be upset if this happened to them too. would you be angry if your bf/gf left comments like that for people other than you? he compliments me all the time and says that he doesn't look at other girls blah blah blah... i'm the only one for him, an angel, etc. but after discovering his stupid comments on other girls' photos, every time he compliments me i just want to punch him in the face. lol. it make me even more infuriated when he gets upset if i talk to other guys or find someone attractive. of course there are beautiful people everywhere but why would someone have the need to comment on it? i feel like it's disrespectful because it's like he doesn't appreciate what he has. i see handsome men everyday and have handsome friends on facebook but i don't like their photos or tell them they're gorgeous. i just doesn't feel like a respectful thing to do if i'm in a relationship. i don't even know how to bring this into discussion with him.

please help me out by expressing your opinion and if you have suggestions on what i can do, let me know as well. thanks in advance for your help, i really appreciate it.

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03-18-2014, 12:34 PM
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From what it sounds like its nothing to worry about. If he really liked any of those girls he would write more than a couple words. It sounds like he is just one of those guys who likes to give compliments.

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03-18-2014, 12:40 PM
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Well no you aren't over-reacting but its either he likes them, or is just being nice. Tell him it makes you sad because a boyfriend shouldn't really be doing that Sad
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03-18-2014, 12:43 PM
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i would be upset with my boyfriend. you are not overreacting. if i were you i would just talk to him. talk it over. i dont think its fair that he gets all upset about you talking to other guys if hes liking/ commenting on other girls picture.
talk it over!
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03-18-2014, 12:58 PM
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I would be bothered too if my bf did this.

I think you need to tell him that this bothers you, etc., if he starts going on and on about you being jealous/insecure and it's no big deal, etc., you really need to rethink this relationship.

And here's why: I'm guessing he's not going to guys pages and make comments like you're handsome or great looking outfit, etc. So he's specifically singling out, attractive girls. In other words, he's throwing bait in the water, and one of these days, one of them will bite. His intentions are not honorable.

Think of this way, how appropriate would it be for your Dad to be telling women in his office, hey beautiful, sexy, etc.? Your Mom would be furious! And it would be an insult to your parents marriage.

Same thing to your relationship.

Just my 2 cents.
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