is he at least interested in being friends? HELP?

[893]

My ex and I ran into each other a while back...we got along great and we had a fun convo. He told me that if I ever wanted to hang out, call. 

He texted me a little the next couple of months. During one of our text convos he was drinking, and he told me that he was sad that we didn't see each other anymore and missed me. I said oh don't worry we're friends again and he said we better be! Then he asked me if I still was dating and I said yes for almost 2 years. He said "Oh you are going to marry that guy! I better get invited to the wedding" and I said "who knows haha" and he said "You are definitely getting married. If you weren't you would be flirting with me." Now I don't know what he was getting at or why he said this. Was he being jealous or fishing for information? He has asked me about my dating situation before and he always says "Are you still dating that guy" which I think is a funny way of saying it. He is a nice guy and we were friends for a few years before we dated, but this was a confusing conversation and I'm not sure what to make of it.He texted me a couple times since then and snapchatted me. Nothing inappropriate. Just a little chit chat.Is he using me somehow? Does he at least like me as a friend?I'm really distraught and have no one to talk to. 

Help! Also he sent me a snapchat last night again and I was sort of concerned because he sent a pic of himself drinking out of a paper bag as a joke. But idk if he was really doing that or not. Is this a cry for help?

[Charley]

HE DOES NOT WANT TO BE FRIENDS.

He wants 1 of 2 things:

1) Sex, or a FWB situation

or

2) To date you again

If you like him, go on dates with him but don't go to his house alone or go anywhere where its expected for him to seduce you/have sex. Only have sex with him AFTER he's committed to you and put it on facebook. If you somehow do get into a sexually charged scenario? Stop and tell him "nope! NO sex UNTIL we are dating, until its up on facebook, etc." If he will do this? Then it shows he PROBABLY at least, wants to date you (although some guys will still put it up then take it right back down). But if you don't even make that request? He will just use you for sex most of the time.

Anyway no guy wants to "be friends" with their ex, and be in the platonic zone while she gets f*cked and taken by other mens c*cks.

That's like a man leaving his fiancée, marrying another girl, then asking his former fiancée for a blowj*b with no commitment, love or money given to her whatsoever. YES ITS THAT OFFENSIVE TO GUYS.