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The Complex Crush. What do I even do?
03-18-2014, 03:43 PM
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The Complex Crush. What do I even do?
So I am 17 and have this massive crush on this stunning girl. We get along great and we talk every day. We text like once or twice a week and talk throughout the whole day until like 12:00 or 1:00 or when we she goes asleep. We Mainly talk on Facebook, though. Because we have a group chat with a mutual friend of ours. And nearly every night after the friend goes to bed. I just start messaging her one on one until like 1 or even 2 in the morning. Is that a good sign? I always tell her how awesome she is and maybe I shouldn't but I honestly can't help it. And she seems kinda excited to see me because we have a mutual school activity that we do. And she hates it when I tell her that I may not be able to go. I have talked to her on the phone once for about 2 hours also. Are these good signs?

Oh one more thing. She has rejected me twice now. Once last year in about April. And once more in mid November. And yes. I have had a crush on her for a year+ now...

So what do I do?!?!

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03-18-2014, 03:45 PM
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hi! i think u should slow thing a bit first u need go in her pace, shes not ready to see u as a boyfriend yet. give her time................. dont keep asking her out once in 6 or 7 months, she would feel suffocated . it looks like shes not developing those feelings for you so u have to help her to do so by some how being special to her i suggest start off by being very very close to her like her bestie and help her as much as you can. she needs to first start thinking about you when you not around then she will feel like meeting you which will slowly make her want to be with you all the time and when that happens even a few days with out you will make her feel lonely and then she will herself realize that she likes u a lot ..............best of luck

im a 17 year old indian girl, my uncle (who i live with) is a psychiatrist. he gave me this suggestion

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